I didn't expect to like him as much as I do

[notalady]

I wouldn't call it a positive update. More of a desperation move when reality set in. He had the chance to do the proper thing when he had control of the situation. Now, after he was kicked to the curb, he's willing to do whatever it takes to get you back in bed.

 

No matter what anyone says, you don't want to be with someone who was forced into agreeing to a relationship. If you're going to date him, then do it right. Go on many dates (restaurants, walks, outings,...) over a matter of weeks/months without going to each other's house. See how he takes going without intimacy.

 

The longer you stretch it out, the better read you have on him as to whether he's really committed (by not rushing you). Go to the next level, only when you know for sure that it's a sure thing (relationship).

 

100% agree with this.