First date...help. What do I wear?

[BigKK]

Haven't heard from him for two days. ��

 

have you reached out to him at all? or has it all been by his own accord?

[Mulder68]

I did text yesterday morning because I never heard the day before. I got a text back saying really busy at working wil ring later but he never did

[mhowe]

Relax. If dates went well...you have just started dating!

[missmarple]

I did text yesterday morning because I never heard the day before. I got a text back saying really busy at working wil ring later but he never did

 

Keep dating others if you aren't already. Something is wrong with this guy.

[Mulder68]

I did text yesterday morning because I never heard the day before. I got a text back saying really busy at working wil ring later but he never did

[Mulder68]

I have that horrible feeling too MissMarple

[Mulder68]

Humm sent another text this morning, just a simple good morning again no reply. Time to forget this one I think

[mhowe]

Yes.

But mostly because not hearing from him made you insecure enough to text..AGAIN!

[Mulder68]

I know mhowe. I just wish these guys would have the courtesy of saying no thanks rather than leave us wondering what is going on. I think every occasion like this knocks my self confidence

[mhowe]

Then stop texting more than once!

If you hear "busy with work"... but you had 2 great dates...wait.

If you don't hear...move on.

 

But texting "good morning" to a guy you have dated 2x is a bit much!

[Mulder68]

I think it was because he was texting me first thing and last thing. I shall take on your advice though. Not used to this dating thing. It's horrible

[mhowe]

In the dance of dating... most men like to lead.

And when you take over before date #3...they will back off.

Because you are too invested too early...red flag for them.

[Mulder68]

Ah ok, notes taken. It was odd because he invited me away for Easter and then I never heard from him again

[mhowe]

You didn't hear from him for 2 days... not "never".

And Easter is 3 weeks from now.

 

See what I mean by too invested?!

[Mulder68]

Lol ..... Yes mum

[mhowe]

Be confident.

You have much to offer.

No need to chase...my dear!

[JA0371]

You've been on a few dates....you don't even know if this guy has a car or a license. You know pretty much nothing about him. I agree, you're far too invested in the outcome with this guy. Think logically and take your ego out of it.

So...if he never calls you again, what have you really lost?? Nothing. You had a few good dates..so enjoy that.

[Mulder68]

You're right I've lost nothing.

[Capricorn3]

You've been on a few dates....you don't even know if this guy has a car or a license. You know pretty much nothing about him. I agree, you're far too invested in the outcome with this guy. Think logically and take your ego out of it.

So...if he never calls you again, what have you really lost?? Nothing. You had a few good dates..so enjoy that.

I second this post. You know nothing about him, if he even has a car or not etc (not that it matters). I get the impression he's hiding something, could even be married or in a relationship. Something not quite right. That said, you're getting way ahead of yourself here, too desperate/needy. He knows you like him. The ball is in his court now. Let him do the next contact.

[Mulder68]

Thank you Capricorn, you are right