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ex - G/F messaged me Happy B'day today.....Do i reply?


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I have been NC for 29 days now and doing great....today is my Birthday and ex messaged me .. Should I reply? Any point? should I ignore? Problem is we work for same company so will see each other sooner rather than later....Do I go for the friendship?

 

Advice appreciated.......

 

Oh im the dumpee by the way not the Dumper .

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I think you can reply something as simple as "thanks" without "going for the friendship"

 

If she insists on further conversation I would break it off or ignore it

 

It really depends on the circs of your break up, if it were reasonably amicable I would lean towards this also.

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Thanks everyone,

I haven't done anything yet, and really appreciate all your replies and the sound advice.....im not sure why its such a big deal to me so just may say thanks and be done with it......

 

That is what I would do, probably took a lot for her to send that good wishes happy bday text to you no reason to ignore can be polite back and leave it at that.

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shoot, just reply, if its causing you this much confusion, just say "thank you" and send it. Then delete the Text message. To me thats the polite thing to do. Dont overthink it, dont think as to why she did, dont analyze it. Just send a "thank you" and give it no other thought

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