krob Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 I talked with a girl on okcupid who goes to my college. After exchanging messages for several days, i finally asked her to maybe go see a movie or ice skating. She said ok and gave me her number. The next day i sent her a text so she would have mu number, and we had a brief text conversation, about 7 messages each, and really hit it off. I then asked if she would want to go see a movie and she said she would be down for anything, that she would have to see when she will be free and get back to me. The next day in the evening i send her a text asking her how her day has been, she hasn't responded now in 24 hours. Does this mean she doesnt like me and i should give up, or am i overreacting. I want to send her another text, but im not sure if I should. Opinions, i know im probably just being stupid an overreacting, but i assume if she wanted to get to know me she wouldnt be ignoring my text. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sportster2005 Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 If she wanted to go on a date she would have replied in 24 hours. I would wait a bit longer. There are valid excuses. Her phone died, SMS messages are sometimes delivered late. Do not under any circumstance text her back. It's like begging and it's week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Seeker Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 She probably has bad reception. It's because her phone is from T-MOBILE. Horrible at reception. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 I would CALL her. I've heard of people sending texts and them not going through. If she doesn't pick up, leave a voicemail. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
losty83 Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 My number 1 rule: ALWAYS call her up to set up a date ! NEVER do txt's - show some confidence in yourself ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krob Posted October 18, 2013 Author Share Posted October 18, 2013 Should I just call her tomorrow evening, and if so should I give her notice via text? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sportster2005 Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Should I just call her tomorrow evening, and if so should I give her notice via text? If you decide to call her, just call her. Sending a text prior is like asking permission. You don't need her permission. She has given you her number and has never told you not to call. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krob Posted October 18, 2013 Author Share Posted October 18, 2013 I think I'll just call her this evening and see if she happens to be free this weekend, there are a couple of ideas I have. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krob Posted October 18, 2013 Author Share Posted October 18, 2013 I texted her prior to make sure she was free, we said she was leaving to go out of town to a festival, so a no go Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abitbroken Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 I texted her prior to make sure she was free, we said she was leaving to go out of town to a festival, so a no go DO NOT text her to ask her if you can call her. Call her up and ask if she would like to go out Tuesday night or pick a night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Texting to ask when to call is lame. Better to just call a girl and ask her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krob Posted October 19, 2013 Author Share Posted October 19, 2013 This is all very confusing. She gave me her number after I asked her out online, and now she doesnt seem interested. Im not sure what to think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Darcy Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 She gave you her number; you should have called her. Anyway, don't reach out. Let her reach out to you if she is really interested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosti87 Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 Krob, Try not to project neediness. It will scare her off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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