Alot of sex questions from a socially awkward guy... Read more: Penis Forum - A

[jonny15]

True. But, what if? You've already answered the question: if a woman was so immature and unlikeable as to say hurtful things about your penis, you'd rightly want nothing more to do with her. What else is there to debate about it? You have what you have. Make the most out of it, which can be plenty.

 

That is true, but there is nothing wrong in thinking about it, because it could happen.

 

And since i've never even been close to a sexual experience, all sort of things pop into my head, and this is one of them.

 

I can't help but to be insecure about some things. I'm only human.

[Capricorn3]

Can we please get back to the OP's questions.

[poetryandlyrics]

Does penis length matter?( I know, alot of men have asked this, but I need to ask as well...although I heard that as long as you are average you are fine, but I also heard from friends that something like 30% of women care?) I am 5-5.5 inches...is that normal?

Average is acceptable. It also varies by women, their vagina sizes. Some may be bigger, some may be smaller. Just got to find the one that fits right for you or is willing to be flexible. Like different positions that work better or something. My boyfriend's is a bit large, and I would prefer him to be a bit smaller -- hurts me sometimes. You're average sized.

 

Does penis girth matter?(Contrary to length, I have heard that girth matters alot, something to do with the nerve endings being pressured and touched more or something.) I am around 4 inches in this department...is that normal?

You're average sized, and see above for my answer.

 

What is the average penis size including length and girth? I have looked this up prior, but I could always use more sources of information...

Refer to your own.

 

How would I make up for it if it turns out my size is not...up to par...? Oral sex? Foreplay? A huge dildo? Sex techniques?

You don't need to "make up for it," but do oral, foreplay, and just have fun with sex -- makes it more pleasurable.

 

Do penis enhancements work?

It works in the sense that it scammed you for the money, and that's generally their aim.

 

How long should pure intercourse last? I heard for most men it was between 2-5 minutes?

As long as you want to.

 

How long should sex including foreplay last? I heard that most women want between 30mins-1 hour.

As long as you/she wants it.

 

How to last longer? Any techniques?

Since I'm not a man, I can't tell you the actual technique, but I do know they can hold it off somehow preventing them to have a climax to enjoy the sex more or to allow the woman to orgasm first. This won't come easy to you at first, but it comes easier with experience. But a declaimer: having sex for too long can also be irritating -- the personal body lube the women has would eventually be gone.

 

Where do I find and what kind of sex techniques are there? In case, I don't measure up...

Ask the woman if there's anything she likes. Having sex should be about figuring out what the other likes. You can also look it up in books, I suppose.

 

How much sex do girls want, and how often?

It depends on the woman.

 

I have phimosis...how do I deal with that? I heard you need to get circumcised, but because the tip of my !**@! is too sensitive when I touch it, would it cause

massive pain and discomfort...or make me cum to quickly? I also heard of steroid creams, and that they help. I always thought that it would correct itself between the age of 20-25 but apparently it was meant to be gone between the ages of 15-18...

No idea but I think this is best discussed with your doctor.

 

How to give oral to a girl? In case....

In case? There is no "in case." Same with blowjobs. if you want one, you should assume it should be sensible that she should want one the same so she shouldn't be assuming "in case." And I would say this also depends on the woman. I prefer the clit to be played with.

 

How long should masturbation last? I tend to be between 5-20 minutes...

However you prefer.

 

How many times should I be doing it per day?

How many times is 'normal?' I usually do it twice or thrice a day...

For your age, yes.

 

I started to think about having sex since I first heard about when I was 7...is that normal? I didn't start masturbating until I was 14 or 15 though..

It is. I used to strip my barbies naked and have them lie on top of each other while I go to the kitchen to eat lunch, chill, then come back because their "sex" (I didn't know how it worked exactly but that they had to be naked) was done. I was probably around 7.

 

When I first started masturbating and watching porn, it would get hard super quick and fast, and it would often hurt until I was done. However over a period of 2-3

years, although I am mentally excited and feel horny physically, my !**@! doesn't get hard very fast...or very hard...I often have to rub it until it gets a hard and

even then, until I am near orgasm it isn't as hard as before...what happened and how do I fix this?

Maybe you're watching porn too much or are masturbating too much. Take a break.

[Awkwardvirgin]

Wow thanks for the responses guys. It is especially nice to hear two female perspectives. Just to make things clear, it is not that I am unwilling to give oral sex, it is more, how do I do it, or where do I focus on. I guess I worded it wrong.

[Jennifer89]

Wow thanks for the responses guys. It is especially nice to hear two female perspectives. Just to make things clear, it is not that I am unwilling to give oral sex, it is more, how do I do it, or where do I focus on. I guess I worded it wrong.

 

I never thought you weren't willing As I said focus on the clit, and listen to her responses, if the girl you are with is super comfertable with you, she'll help you find the right spots. I know it's intimidating but no one really knows until they've experienced it.

 

I think the lost helpful thing for you at the moment is to learn were the clit is and what it looks like, I have heard that a lot of guys have difficulty finding it.

 

And don't be intimidated, no one is perfect there first time. Keep working on it anyway.

 

Sexualy, there is nothing more disappointing to me when I discover that the guy I'm with isn't willing to put a lot of effert into pleasuring me orally. I have talked to many lady friends who have said the same. It's a shame bc I think a lot of guys have a bad experience and just give up.

 

Anything you do, the clit is the most important tool to her satisfaction.

[Michelle23]

Size and Girth do not matter as long as they are not below average. I think you should start to focus on feelings and emotions first before sleeping with a girl. Caring emotional sex is much better than a shag. Foreplay should be at least 20mins to ensure she is calm and wet enough. Its even better if she is close to orgasm before intercourse as this takes the pressure off you and you do not need to worry about coming too fast. If masturbation is painful, i recommend seeing a doctor as sex will be painful too otherwise.

Every girl is different so when you meet a girl-just be upfront and honest. Tell her you do not have much experience and you would appreciate some feedback. This way, you can take your time exploring her body and figuring out what she likes and Im sure she will do the same for you. Focus on making her feel relaxed and comfortable and safe so it is easier for her to discuss her sexual desires with you.

Sex is not just all about pleasure. It is also how we build trust with someone and show we care so bear that in mind in future.

[Michelle23]

Also I would just like to add. If a man is considered good in bed-it has nothing to do with how much experience he has. It has to do with how much effort he makes to ensure she orgasms. The most inexperienced man can be much, much better in bed than someone who has been with loads of girls and an inexperienced man is much more respected by about 80% of women

[doppelgag68]

Does penis length matter? Width/girth matters more than length imo.

 

What is the average penis size including length and girth? I have heard it's about 6 inches?

 

How would I make up for it if it turns out my size is not...up to par...? Foreplay for sure! Also stamina helps.

 

Do penis enhancements work? Doubt it lol

 

How long should pure intercourse last? In my experiences, about 5-15 minutes. Some of the best are quickies though

 

How long should sex including foreplay last? 15 minutes

 

How to last longer? Any techniques? Experience

 

How much sex do girls want, and how often? That's completely dependent on the girl. I feel like I've always wanted it more than boyfriend's I've had. I will say this; if I'm not feeling that spark or romance I am less inclined to want it.

 

How many times should I be doing it per day? I think you should focus less on 'guidelines' and do it whenever you feel the need.

 

When I first started masturbating and watching porn, it would get hard super quick and fast, and it would often hurt until I was done. However over a period of 2-3

years, although I am mentally excited and feel horny physically, my !**@! doesn't get hard very fast...or very hard...I often have to rub it until it gets a hard and

even then, until I am near orgasm it isn't as hard as before...what happened and how do I fix this?

 

^ You've been exposed to it multiple times. Once you get used to it you'll need more. Kinda the same reason why most people get bored of sex in long relationships.

[Awkwardvirgin]

If you don't mind me asking, what would that quickie entail, or what kind of sex is it?

 

Also...sex = boring? INCONCEIVABLE!

[EssexMan]

Also...sex = boring? INCONCEIVABLE!

 

Oh yes, just like anything else.