TRM38 Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 I was with my ex for over 6 yrs, thought she was the most amazing woman in the world..we broke up a few months ago , I made all the mistakes ..took the breadcrumbs from her, we hooked up a few times that she initiated. I recently found out she is dating a guy for only like 3 weeks, they live over an hr apart , she has a son , both work and they've only seen each other a few times..I was out with some friends last night and we ended up taking a cab to another part of town, going by her place is the simplist shortest route so naturally the cab took that route.. I noticed new guys truck at her place at 2am .. It's weird I wasn't jealous at all more like shocked and disgusted really ..it felt like it totaly crushed my image of her.. I think that's what bothers me the most ? Can anyone relate? Iv decided its best to go nc Link to comment
FrenchFries Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 What image did you have? I think NC is a good idea. Hopefully this will help you move forward. Link to comment
TRM38 Posted November 25, 2012 Author Share Posted November 25, 2012 The image I had of her was she was better than that to have a guy over night she barely knew .. Plus that day I received a bread crumb text at 730 am that new guy may b old guy they were having issues.. I asked her why she felt the need to tell me that considering she was hardly out of bed for the yet for the day..she replied that she thought I would get a kick out of it.. I never gave her any reason to say that in fact when she told me she had met someone I told her that I hoped he treated her and her son well as I do love her that much.. I realize now why she told me , just to pull the strings a bit , they had issues and she reached out to the comfort zone. Link to comment
InkedDragon Posted November 25, 2012 Share Posted November 25, 2012 People do crazy things after a break up to comfort themselves. Link to comment
TRM38 Posted November 25, 2012 Author Share Posted November 25, 2012 True and it really hurts being used like that.. Feel stupid for letting it happen , brain was fighting with the heart and I should have gone with the brain. Link to comment
InkedDragon Posted November 25, 2012 Share Posted November 25, 2012 Don't feel bad. Emotions are a lot stronger then logic when it comes to affairs of the heart. You didn't let it happen. You have no control on what others do. It hurts for sure. Keep your head up. Link to comment
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