Women, how often do you fake it?

[lmasterz]

The title asks it all. Do you fake it? If yes, why? Do you tell him you faked it? Any other info is also welcome.

[buddha55]

When I was 18, 19 I did. So he would stop (sometimes guys just try and it's not going to happen) or for his eo boost. Now, I Never do... No one wins

[gingerlemon]

No, I never do.

[SandyJ]

I used to fake it with pretty much everyone I slept with. Not every time, as that wasn't necessary.

Reasons? As mentioned by buddha 55. To get him to stop and to boost his ego. A lot of guys just cannot accept that not every woman has an orgasm every time.

Men always think they will be able to tell if a woman fakes it - I completely disagree with that.

I told one of them, it was a LTR, I was young, 17 at the time.

[BellaDonna]

Never. Not even once in my lifetime.

[Circe]

Never. Even if I don't get there - I'd rather not fake it and be real (and still be enjoying myself) than "acting" and not really being myself and probably not enjoying myself (wouldnt you be all worried about whether you were doing a convincing job of faking?). I mean .. it's not intimacy if you aren't being real, right?

[Jd1983]

I never fake it. I don't orgasm each and every time, but it doesn't mean that I'm not enjoying it.

[figur]

I did until I was 19 with 2 partners. Then I wised up and realized it got me nowhere. Since then all of my partners have been able to get me off. I don't fake it ever now, I'll just be honest when I know it's not going to happen.

[sara-pezzini]

i never fake it, why would you? i usually take care of myself during sex, so if i am not able to get one with my BF, i just take matters into my own hands, why deprive yourself and why give him the idea you cum? then he thinks he knows what makes you get off and you only end up depriving yourself.....plus in an honest relationship, if you love him, why pretend? don't get that at all!

[quirky]

I've never faked it, I am a terrible liar...why do that? I'll either help him give me an orgasm or leave it.

[Fudgie]

I don't fake it. If I don't feel able to cum during sex, I either just don't cum (pretty uncommon) or I just use my fingers to help myself.

[tinsel]

I never have. I wouldn't be able to fake it, I'd feel too guilty and fess up immediately after. Haha.

[Minx2012]

I faked it a few times with one guy in my life. He wasn't bad in bed, but he wasn't stellar either. Perhaps, we weren't as sexually compatible. I faked it bc I didn't want to make it any more awkward than it was. It was a means to spare him his feelings...to be "polite" in such an embarassing situation.

[vix8]

porn and expectations made me fake it lol. when i was a teen, i didn't know that guys can make girls orgasm, even though ive given myself one? i just faked it and acted sexy for self esteem mainly. Then when i was like 17, i realized the situation was not fair and i wanted to get off, so i never faked it, instead i was upfront and blunt. i didn't really care if his ego was hurt lol.