laura-j Posted November 9, 2011 Share Posted November 9, 2011 OK. Situation is I met this guy at a volunteer event. We got along famously, spent two evenings hanging out, he was a bit flirty (he was in the event's band and I was on staff) and we just hit it off. It was really fun. Went to go see the band again and he invited me to hang out with them at the studio afterwards. So I went and hung out and it was fun, he was very sweet and when I left he hugged me and you know when you pull back at the end of the hug, well I did that 3 times and he was still hugging me. So I thought... hmmm. He might like me. So I didn't have a phone number for him and the facebook was under the band not his name, so I didn't want to post anything stupid there. But a friend had his phone number. So I texted him. He was stoked! I was stoked! Everyone was stoked! We made tentative plans to go out which he couldn't make. The next night wanted to hang out but I wasn't available. Later that night he called and we talked for two hours. It was great! He was telling me how happy he was to meet me and wanted to get to know me, it was about 10 pm, and he did NOT make the booty call move or anything like that. It was really sweet. He ended it with "I'm so glad we are consistently if not a bit slowly taking it to the next level" (good right?) That was three days ago. I haven't heard back. Am I allowed to call or text to say hey and see when we can get together? In my book if you spend two hours on the phone with someone gushing about how much you like them, it's probably a safe bet that they like you... BUT... Yeah you never know. (Let's put it this way his phone died and he plugged it in and called back to keep talking to me... and there was no sex gonna happen... and it was not dirty talk at all it was really quite cute.) I know he had some stuff going on this weekend, I don't want to seem pathetic, but I'd like to see him and see how it goes. Guys... thoughts? Link to comment
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