pat7x Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 I met this girl 3 weeks ago, got her phone number, went on a date, end up spending the night together, but told her I wasn't ready for anything serious (I'm not in a ldr, but there's this girl and she comes back next summer, and I had to tell her that I wasn't gonna wait, you know kinda had to really think about what i wanted). So I get my mind straight and we see each other a week later, samething so I'm starting to think relationship potential, and I wanted to make sure she didn't think it was only sexual for me, so I tried to call her, tried last wednesday night, wouldn't answer so I called her once on friday night, samething. I then decided to write to her, cause I was leaving for the weekend. Here's pretty much what the text said: Hey, I just woke up and I was thinking of you. Just realized I didn't even tell you how great it was seeing you last sunday. etc etc ect... just wanted to let you know that I really am interested in you, I think you're smart, charismatic, beautiful, unbelievably nice and funny. I just want to make sure we take things slowly and really get to know each other but it is not only about the sex for me. I didn't get an answer yet (Im not sure she saw it), but in the meantime, a friend told me he saw her at a bar with a guy he knows, and he thinks she's dating multiple guys, since he has seen her a few times with different guys, he's not sure if they were intimate but he thinks so... Now, I don't really mind, I mean, we never talked about being exclusive, but I'd want to... Now my question is, are girls like that worth trying, I mean, I don't wanna get played or something, I don't usually date girls like that... it's a first, so my plan was next time we see each other, you know really explained I want to try, but that means being exclusive, but I just want to know what to be careful with, you know, what signs to watch etc, anything you can tell me on these type of girls, is there potential for long term relationships or not all, etc etc etc. Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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