arrakis77 Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 This weekend is the three month mark with my girlfriend. We see each other 2-3 times a week and things seem to be great and balanced. She dropped an "I love you", just once, two weeks ago but I'm not ready to say it. It has been a long time since my last true relationship. I want to do something a bit unexpected (ie. different) but no where near over the top. Aside from birthday flowers and buying occasional meals, I haven't done much as far as gifts. She hasn't either, but she did write me a very nice card thanking me for the flowers (about two months ago) and I found out earlier this week she was thinking about sending another one. I've thought about writing her a card and maybe a single rose but don't want anything pressuring or committal. The flower is optional, but I think it's time to share some feelings and am struggling not to say too much or be sappy. I haven't copied it verbatim so it reads a bit ad-libbed, but this is what I came up with: Dear ******, It's been three months and looking back, I smile at all the great times we've had so far. From x, y and z, I realize that these times were special because you were with me. You are . I sincerely appreciate your effort in setting up dates and have noticed the thoughtful little things you do. I love how we can have fun together and also communicate openly. You should know how much I value our time together and miss you when we're not. I am lucky to have you and can't wait to see what's in store for the future. Happy 3-months! -******** I know I'm being over-analytical (it's a curse). Any thoughts/suggestions on what I wrote or other ideas for this weekend would be appreciated. Link to comment
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