My Wife's Found DivorceBusting.com - Now What!

[smilieman]

I have been posting on here after my wife left me. She returned after 3 weeks, but things have been strained. I have been using advice from this forum and link removed and now my wife has found it on the Internet.

 

What do I do now? Any advice would be appreciated!

[Kev0s1983]

I guess what can you do other than be honest and talk with her... It isnt as though there are many options good luck

[avman]

Tell her you've been doing everything to try to save the marriage and become a better person. Using books, internet sites, advice from friends, and whatever else you can find. It's the truth (right?) so why would that be a bad thing? It's not like she found you on dating sites or escort sites. Now that I can see being a big problem.

[smilieman]

That's true. I've always been honest, so I guess this is what I'll do.

 

Many thanks

[NCforME]

Let her know you have also been on sites that aren't just about getting her back but are trying to help you be a better husband. Since thats what its all about, getting a second shot so that you can do better.

[catfeeder]

Did she expect you to curl up and pull the covers over your head?

[Tired Tiger]

smilieman - There's a thread in the Divorce section called "Relationship with X" that will provide you with as much insight as you'll find anywhere. Most of the guys in that thread were in your exact shoes at one point.

[learning2relax]

If she came back after 3 weeks, she should seek comfort in that you are doing what you can to contribute to the repair of your marriage.

[smilieman]

smilieman - There's a thread in the Divorce section called "Relationship with X" that will provide you with as much insight as you'll find anywhere. Most of the guys in that thread were in your exact shoes at one point.

I'll check it out - many thanks

[smilieman]

If she came back after 3 weeks, she should seek comfort in that you are doing what you can to contribute to the repair of your marriage.

I would have thought along those lines to, but it seems she is adamant that her feelings won't change. Our situation has been caused, in my mind, by financial strain and me being out of work. I think she blames me and therefore by splitting up with me she will be happy - as I am the problem. It's so tough to swallow that!

[Ms Darcy]

I don't think the website is the problem. It's that she's set on leaving given your most recent post. I'm sorry for what you are going through.