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  1. You dumped me and said we weren't right for each other but that I was your best friend. Now you are dating an under water construction worker. You left a guy who's about to have a Masters in electrical engineering for a guy who's only qualification he needs for his job is that he doesn't have heart condition, that's it. Where is this going to go? Is this the man of your dreams? Is he going to take you to the Guggenheim to see an exhibit on classicism like I did? Or is he going invite you over while him and his friends play Maddon and drink beers and reminisce how they played football in high school and that one time he did something "so crazy bro". You have a Masters degree, he has a 6 month training certificate. What stimulating conversations are you going to have with this man? Or does that not matter? Of course maybe you know this is going nowhere.
  2. I can tell you that being 25 doesn't make it easy. I guess it really depends on where the individual is in their life. Not so much their age.
  3. 10 days on round 2! 41 since break up
  4. Day 6, 37 since break up.............
  5. Round 2 Day 4, I had a dream last night that it was our wedding night and you looked at me while we were lying in bed as to say you'll love me forever. I guess that will probably never happen now. Ironically I was woken up by another girl texting me she had to cancel our lunch date for today because she got called in to work and wanted to reschedule for Friday.
  6. Day 3 round 2, 34 days since break up. Starting lose count though, I had to recalculate. I hooked up with a girl this weekend. I think it may have made me feel worse initially. I felt more distant from her than I have yet. Not sure it was the smartest thing to do either.
  7. For the wrong guys it is. I would love to date a woman that is that successful. NC day 2. I am restarting NC after LC this week. I made it 26 days on the first round after the break up.
  8. I feel you too. My ex broke up with 25 days ago as well. I haven't heard a thing. We have been NC the whole time. I can't even understand her anymore. This is not the girl I dated for 2 years...........
  9. 25 days, the last couple days have been very hard but the anxiety subsided today luckily. 5 more days till I reach the goal of 30! Not sure what I'll do then. I have been considering limited contact. Her birthday is next week, I'm wondering whether I should send a happy birthday text just to break the ice after more than a month of NC? But, maybe no text would make her miss me more, I don't know.
  10. 23 days! The weird thing sometimes I think it's getting harder to not contact her. At first I actually thought it wasn't that bad, relatively of course. But the last couple of days have been the hardest of all for some reason. I guess because I'm starting to really feel that separation. I went on a date with another girl today too. I didn't really feel it with her, probably because its too soon, but it feels good to be at least out meeting people. My social network really shrank when I was in a relationship.
  11. Three weeks or day 21. It's getting easier. The only thing i need to cut out is the checking of the Facebook page and I know I should have deleted her but we have all the same friends as we have known each other for a long time, even before dating. It would be easier if we didn't hang out with all the same people. I just don't want to seem dramatic. Deleting at this point I think would violate the Non-Chalantness?
  12. Yes, weekends are definitely the worse. NC for 17 days. Heard through a mutual friend yesterday that she said she doesn't regret the decision and she just wanted a "change" in her life. Whatever that means. Hope is looking bleak.
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