so-lost Posted June 7, 2010 Share Posted June 7, 2010 Today is my NC Day#2 I am a gal and my bf dumped me as he says he has no time for me and he needed space. Asking me to find a better guy who can be here for me 100% and all other BS he told me. But I have a question, hope you can help me. Before this breakup, we did have a 10-day "cool off period".Coz again he said he needed "space" and need only few days to think over things. I told him, I am generous enough to offer him 10 days, how's that? And I told him we will meet on his birthday to hear his decision. So deal! It was a NC and I was SO strong to keep it 200% NC. My goal was only to look fwd to hearing from him on his birthday and also I use this NC period to learn how to bake cupcakes for his bday and also cook steak. 24/7 I'd be checking my cell hoping to get his text but of coz..NONE. I have done so much preparation during NC and on the 6th day..to my surprise I got a text from him!!!! He did NOT make it to 10th day. His text: "Are you doing ok?" I broke the NC rule by immediately replied back "I miss u" Anyway he requested to meet immediately the next day and we patched up. He told me he was worry about me coz he knew i'd be and am very sad. My question here is, based on so many NC theories and also what you said above, exs will more likely to call back when they found we have moved on and doing perfectly fine. We're no longer self-pity. I would like some opinions from you guys based on my story above...will my ex BF feel that if now I have moved on during this real breakup and that he will just...not return? Coz last time during the "10-day cooloff period" it seems that he texted me back coz he was worry about me and he KNOWS I was very sad and again that was NOT even breakup. It was cool-off NC only. Please advise. Link to comment
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