turnaroundmyway Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 My fiance and I go to counselling but he doesn't want to address the real stuff there. He has an issue with any time I spend away from him. That includes time for me to workout. My health has suffered. He even resents the time he has to spend with his daughter because I am not there. I have stated I am going to start working out and now he is questioning our relationship and what it will be like when we are married. How much time will we actually spend together if I have to work out? I'm not sure if it has anything to do with his late wife's death, but I think he has always been like this. He says I am too independent. We agree he is insecure. He thinks I should change to accommodate his insecurities. He thinks we should do everything together. Logistics prevent us from working out together daily. If I do go it is rushed because I have to meet him right after. He supports my efforts because it makes me happy but it takes away from my time from him. Now he questions our compatibility. His late wife and him were childhood sweethearts. I am his first girlfriend since. This is my second engagement. I don't want to go through through another broken engagement. What do I do? Sorry it's so jumbled. Thanks for reading! Link to comment
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