BriarRose Posted May 8, 2010 Share Posted May 8, 2010 I have a "friend" who I once loved and once had a thing with (but I wanted more than he did) who is contacting me again. As many of you know, he was not there for me (emotionally) when I was going through cancer treatment - hardly even dropped me a line to ask how I was. Now he knows I am better...but I will never be able to get past his indifference towards me when I was sick - I could have died. He had time to go on link removed, but no time to call to see how I was feeling. He asked if I was seeing someone (I guess because I was ignoring his correspondence - he is long distance). I told him no, but didn't go into any detail. Should I tell him the truth? That I don't think we can ever be true friends (or more) because I can never forget how he treated me during that time? Or just keep it light and not get into it and just tell him I have a bf (which I don't) and go NC? He really is not a bad guy and I still care for him. He's just a little self-absorbed and just didn't have strong feelings for me. He is not a bad person and I don't want to say anything callous to him... Link to comment
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