DreamerGirl27 Posted May 3, 2010 Share Posted May 3, 2010 but...I just can't get him off my mind! I like him a lot, that's why. I have this friend that I met last year in August, but didn't start talking to until November. Anyway, we started off talking on myspace, then more in person and then eventually texting every day non-stop. Like NON-STOP!! Late at night, day time, whenever. I eventually wound up telling him I like him (like that) and I'm not sure if it was the smartest thing to do, but it just sort of happened. At the time, he didn't tell me whether he liked me or not. Well, a couple months go by and I find out he doesn't like me like that. The only problem is, he still talks to me all the time. Like, he is dead set on being friends. Well...this last Friday night he invited me to his house. He said he was lonesome. I said I was, too. He facebook IMed me (like he always does) at like midnight, wanting me to buy some drinks and drive to his house. Anyway, I said I would and he's like, "just drive here and we will go together". So, I did. I got there and he was waiting outside for me and we went to the corner and got some drinks...when we went up to the counter, I tried to stand behind him like I was gonna pay for myself, but he wouldn't have it. He ended up buying my drink for me...this is the second time he's paid for me when we've been out. Well anyway, we got back to his house, he snuck me in through his window (lol) and we drank and played video games for awhile (in his bed haha). We didn't do anything, by the way, I know that's what everyone is probably thinking by now. A couple hours later he looked like he was about to fall asleep so I said I can leave (I wish I hadn't said that) but I did, because I really didn't want to "do anything" with him. I don't want "friends with benefits". The only way I'd want that is if I was in a relationship with him. I'm not...so I got cold feet and after about 2 hours, once the alcohol had started kicking in (he had more than I did) I was just like, "I can leave if you're gonna fall asleep". He's like "I don't want you to go!"... 15 min later he's like "I'm about to crash, so as much as I don't want to, I'm gonna have to kick you outta here". (I wasn't drunk, I barely had any alcohol in mine, so I was fine driving home). I am so damn confused by this "friendship" we have going on here... and I'm starting to not really care anymore, whatever happens is gonna happen. But, at the same time, I do still like him. Had he never told me he doesn't like me like that over facebook IM, I wouldn't be so confused. but the paying for me, inviting me to his house late at night (early in the morning is more like it) and just...gah! I don't know. I've never been snuck through a window before lmao and I most certainly have never drank with a guy in his bed at 2am before, either... Maybe I just have 0-little experience with guys, but I have never really liked a guy quite like this before. A few people I have talked to online on message boards keep telling me I am just in the "friend zone". My actual friends that I have IRL keep telling me he is playing me and leading me on. I don't know who to believe. I, personally, think he likes me and is sending mixed messages. That is why I am so confused. Link to comment
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