Mustachio Posted April 13, 2010 Share Posted April 13, 2010 If you have followed me story, I went through a bad breakup about 7 months ago from my first and really only relationship I have been in. So I find myself now without any real experience in dating and pursuing relationships as I was 18 going on 19 when I got together with my ex and I am 26 now and havent pursued any other relationship than the one with my ex which just sort of fell into place. I have tried the online dating thing, and been on a few dates here and there but nothing I have really wanted to pursue until now. There is this girl I have been talking to for a few weeks now, and recently it has come to the point where we have chatted pretty much every day for the last week or two. I went on a date with her on Saturday. Went over to her place then from there we went out for a bit of food and a few drinks, then back to her place where we watched a few movies. It didnt go any farther than cuddling and a couple little kisses. I called her on Sunday and asked her out again, she is coming up toward my area and we are going out to dinner tomorrow, then possibly back to my place to watch a movie. We still continue to chat every day and yesterday I was asking her some questions trying to get a feel for what sort of things she liked to possibly plan future dates and we now have a third date scheduled for this coming sunday to go up to a winery. Well, I really like her, and I have been saying some nice sweet things, and so far she has seemed to respond positively to almost everything I have done. But I am concerned that I might come on too strong and end up scaring her off. Its just been so long since I have felt this way about someone that I just want to go full steam ahead, but again, dont want to scare her off... not to mention that I am not great at reading people so I always worry that I am coming on too strongly and she is just being polite. I dont know, I probably read into things too much. Sorry for the long post, I just want to make sure that my excitement in this situation doesnt come off as needy and clingy and push her away. Any insight will be appreciated. Link to comment
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