ay0_x Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Guys, would you be hesitant to be with a girl if she had a male roommate? (the roommate and her are strictly friends and have never been anything more) If so why? Link to comment
Mia_of_Doom Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 My roommate is a gay man, so I'd certainly hope not. Link to comment
ay0_x Posted September 2, 2009 Author Share Posted September 2, 2009 My roommate is a gay man, so I'd certainly hope not. Oo I dont think they count lol. Link to comment
furious Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Not really. I mean if she's out dating me whilst having a male roommate then she must not be interested in him. I can definitely see why it would make for uneasiness though. Link to comment
orangesoda Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 it'd catch my attention, but no, I probably wouldn't make any conclusions until I've met the guy and seen their interaction (guys know guys - we can see through the BS if there's any funny business going on, especially on the other guy's part). Link to comment
d24 Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 yeah i agree see how they interact, you'll pick up on the vibe if he's into her soon enough then you can either have a chat with him about it or just call it bad luck and move on... there's no point or fun to being an unwitting 3rd wheel or joining a love triangle! Link to comment
capbit Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 It wouldn't be a big deal for me. If she's comfortable living with another guy then I doubt there is any sexual attraction. They're probably closer as friends. Link to comment
Symbolic Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 I would be. You are just a room away from doing whatever you might want to do. Link to comment
d24 Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Nobody seen such comedies as Zack and Miri ? haha Come on, the guy is always just there cos he wants her! lol ^ (all in jest, you understand) Link to comment
ay0_x Posted September 2, 2009 Author Share Posted September 2, 2009 Nobody seen such comedies as Zack and Miri ? haha Come on, the guy is always just there cos he wants her! lol ^ (all in jest, you understand) I've also seen the end of that movie when she lives with that skinny dude. Oh man. haha Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 i dated one of my exs for 2.5 years and she had 3 male roommates. doesn't bother me. Link to comment
Doc Blaze Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 depends....i was going to live with my best friend when i got kicked out of my house but her bf flipped.... Link to comment
dragon lady Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Given my own experiences with male roommates, I can understand why a boyfriend or boyfriend would be worried! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Given my own experiences with male roommates, I can understand why a boyfriend or boyfriend would be worried! care to elaborate? Link to comment
dragon lady Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 care to elaborate? Not really.... Link to comment
LightbulbSun Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 I wouldn't care, as long as they're just friends. Link to comment
sophie274 Posted September 3, 2009 Share Posted September 3, 2009 My sister and I have both had male roommates, and it hasn't typically been a problem. In my case, I lived with many others and didn't spend much time with the roommates. My sister lives alone with her male roommate and they spend quite a bit of time together, but they've been just friends for a long time, and it's very clear that there's NOTHING going on. A lot of my friends live in mixed households ... I don't think it's usually been an issue for them either. Link to comment
servedcold Posted September 3, 2009 Share Posted September 3, 2009 Depends, provided the roommate isn't an ex, probably not a big deal. Have had some surprisingly frequent experience over the years with women who were still living with an "ex" yet out dating at the same time and expecting guys they were dating to be cool with that. Funny, as no woman I've ever known would tolerate a BF living with an ex while they were dating, none, nada. Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted September 3, 2009 Share Posted September 3, 2009 Eh, roommates in general tend to hamper things Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted September 3, 2009 Share Posted September 3, 2009 I lived with 6 guys last year. They couldn't be any more friend zoned. Seriously. Link to comment
iLiveWithMyMom Posted September 3, 2009 Share Posted September 3, 2009 I wouldn't care, as long as they're just friends. For me, it would depend on how close they were. If they spent a lot of alone time together, especially at night and while drunk, I'd definitely feel uneasy. I'm not gonna lie. If they were more casual where they just went out on the weekends as part of a larger group, then I couldn't care less. Been there, done that. Link to comment
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