ay0_x Posted August 16, 2009 Share Posted August 16, 2009 Okay so I've been on youtube listening to some pretty smooth rNb music & watching a few guys dance. Now, I know I'm a little weird when it comes to sexual tastes but I thought the idea of a guy giving me a lapdance was pretty tame but incredibly sexy. Apparently.. not many guys will do it. WHY? And how can I convince someone to do it >_> Link to comment
Esteller Posted August 16, 2009 Share Posted August 16, 2009 ha it funny thinking about doing a lap dance to a girl... but maybe they dont know how, they dont want to look stupid.. embarrassed. idk something along those lines... ha but i do it for my girlfriend sometimes to be funny but im sure she likes it but i laugh the whole time.. and to convince someone to do it.. not sure.. haha a bribe maybe haha Link to comment
ay0_x Posted August 16, 2009 Author Share Posted August 16, 2009 ha it funny thinking about doing a lap dance to a girl... but maybe they dont know how, they dont want to look stupid.. embarrassed. idk something along those lines... ha but i do it for my girlfriend sometimes to be funny but im sure she likes it but i laugh the whole time.. and to convince someone to do it.. not sure.. haha a bribe maybe haha Pfft. self conciousness sucks. and the bribe didn't work Link to comment
Esteller Posted August 16, 2009 Share Posted August 16, 2009 ha u actually tried bribing? yea but thats how some think. how about when you find a love in your life try asking him.. i dont see why he wouldnt if you guys are turned on wit it Link to comment
Raistlin Posted August 16, 2009 Share Posted August 16, 2009 Get your guy pretty buzzed and offer something in return. You'll likely get what you want. Link to comment
MT1981 Posted August 16, 2009 Share Posted August 16, 2009 how does a guy do a lap dance??????? lol Link to comment
In the Dark Posted August 16, 2009 Share Posted August 16, 2009 I'd give a lap dance to a girl but I'd probably laugh all the way through it. Link to comment
Bad Wolf Posted August 16, 2009 Share Posted August 16, 2009 I'd do it! it would be fun Beg if you need to lol. Link to comment
InBruges Posted August 16, 2009 Share Posted August 16, 2009 Apparently.. not many guys will do it. WHY? It's kind of like the whole foot fetish thing: there will always be a few odd ducks out there that are into it, but in general, the rest of the population thinks it's just plain weird. The whole point of a lap dance is the sexual suggestion of penetration. The girl is gettin her stuff right up on your stuff and there's only a couple layers of clothing keeping the two people from going at it. But a girl sitting in a chair while a guy's butt is in her lap... there's no sexual suggestion there. There's just... weirdness. Link to comment
ay0_x Posted August 16, 2009 Author Share Posted August 16, 2009 It's kind of like the whole foot fetish thing: there will always be a few odd ducks out there that are into it, but in general, the rest of the population thinks it's just plain weird. The whole point of a lap dance is the sexual suggestion of penetration. The girl is gettin her stuff right up on your stuff and there's only a couple layers of clothing keeping the two people from going at it. But a girl sitting in a chair while a guy's butt is in her lap... there's no sexual suggestion there. There's just... weirdness. I don't want his butt in my lap. I want him to pretend he's gyrating me but... not. Link to comment
OrangeMoon Posted August 16, 2009 Share Posted August 16, 2009 haha funny...I would feel so weird. But the thing is...I did see it once in a show. The ones that are weird and make you laugh is when a guy tries to move like a woman..somehow. Its just plain weird. But I saw one with a real sexy dude..and the way he worked the floor OMG...but that was not a lapdance either. Lapdances are for women in my opinion....but he can surely dance for me ;-p Link to comment
KG Posted August 16, 2009 Share Posted August 16, 2009 I did one once. It wasn't a "lap dance" per se. She was standing, and I bumped, grinded her, without letting her touch me, with hands, lips, etc. I was aroused, and while minimally clothed, rubbed "it" against her legs, butt, front. I also rubbed my chest against hers, got immediate results, LOL! So, yeah, made for some great afterwards. For the life of me I cant remember what music was playing....but she was the one who asked for it. Link to comment
ay0_x Posted August 16, 2009 Author Share Posted August 16, 2009 I did one once. It wasn't a "lap dance" per se. She was standing, and I bumped, grinded her, without letting her touch me, with hands, lips, etc. I was aroused, and while minimally clothed, rubbed "it" against her legs, butt, front. I also rubbed my chest against hers, got immediate results, LOL! So, yeah, made for some great afterwards. For the life of me I cant remember what music was playing....but she was the one who asked for it. You're a trooper. That's what I was talking about. Link to comment
scared and alone Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 It's kind of like the whole foot fetish thing: there will always be a few odd ducks out there that are into it, but in general, the rest of the population thinks it's just plain weird. The whole point of a lap dance is the sexual suggestion of penetration. The girl is gettin her stuff right up on your stuff and there's only a couple layers of clothing keeping the two people from going at it. But a girl sitting in a chair while a guy's butt is in her lap... there's no sexual suggestion there. There's just... weirdness. A girl can be just as turned on as a guy could... I find nothing wrong or weird about it. Link to comment
In the Dark Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Just thinking, it would hillarious of the guy lapdancer gets an erection while doing all of this. Link to comment
waveseer Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Just thinking, it would hillarious of the guy lapdancer gets an erection while doing all of this. What would be the point if he didn't? Link to comment
In the Dark Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 What would be the point if he didn't? I thought the whole Lap Dance was about "the lap dance" Not the hard on. I've seen guys lap dance a woman before and thier "wing wang" didn't raise a bit. But if dancing for a S/O I could see it happening and seeing it as a turn on for the lap dancee. It's just me I can't take it seriously. lol Dancing away for the S/O during that time the pole goes up HA HA HA! Link to comment
KG Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 The "lap dance" is supposed to be fun for both, so if he didn't have an erection, you should worry. I thought the whole Lap Dance was about "the lap dance" Not the hard on. I've seen guys lap dance a woman before and thier "wing wang" didn't raise a bit. But if dancing for a S/O I could see it happening and seeing it as a turn on for the lap dancee. It's just me I can't take it seriously. lol Dancing away for the S/O during that time the pole goes up HA HA HA! Link to comment
quirky Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 what a fun thread! i think they would hesitate cos usually it's the woman that looks pretty, flaunts her beauty, seduces in that alluring manner.. I encouraged my ex once but I don't think he was confident - I think it takes a man that is confident and very free sexually - and yeah we were laughing quite a bit! Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 I would give a girl a lap dance if I was drunk enough but I think I would have a hard time gyrating my hips like Shakira. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 I can't imagine my guy dancing. He can't even walk down the stairs properly. Link to comment
greywolf Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Okay so I've been on youtube listening to some pretty smooth rNb music & watching a few guys dance. Now, I know I'm a little weird when it comes to sexual tastes but I thought the idea of a guy giving me a lapdance was pretty tame but incredibly sexy. Apparently.. not many guys will do it. WHY? And how can I convince someone to do it >_> Buy a whip. Link to comment
ay0_x Posted August 17, 2009 Author Share Posted August 17, 2009 Buy a whip. ROFL. Rep'd. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 19, 2009 Share Posted August 19, 2009 i've done it for gfs. i've also done it for the hot b-day girl at the bar. one gave me $20 and bought me and my boy shots...and it was her b-day lol. Link to comment
oldenoughtoknow Posted August 19, 2009 Share Posted August 19, 2009 I've done something similar to a lap dance my SO's. Not in a chair - she's laying naked in bed. And I couldn't really call it dancing, although I did have some good music. There wasn't any of the typical butt grinding involved, but lots of frontal grinding, if you know what I mean. It's kind of like a sensual massage...with a twist. I start by caressing her entire body with my hands. Then I kiss, lick and breathe around her naughty bits. Then I rub my entire body all over hers, sliding Mr. Happy up and down her legs, her abdomen, dangling in her face. It was pretty damned hot! And because it wasn't really a dance, I didn't feel self conscious at all. The other thing that helped was because it was very interactive...kind of like a massage, or a new sex technique. Link to comment
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