AmyeMae Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 I went out on one date with this guy a while back. We were introduced by friends. He didn't ask me for my number himself, but rather asked my friend for it. Then it took him a week to actually call me and another week after that to ask me out....so he's kinda shy So anyway, after that, he never asked me out again, I guess the first date sucked for him. But the thing that confuses me is, why does he still email/text me everyday? Clearly he doesn't want to go out again since it's been months since the first date, but he still contacts me and I don't understand why. Usually, if the guy is no longer interested, then he stops all contacts. Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 Are you interested in him is the question. Sounds like he's interested but shy or lack experience. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 did you click with him? if not, just block him. Link to comment
Dubb Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 Some guys just get into bad grooves with women and establish patterns such as this. I would not say he's not into. I don't think he has a lot of interest either. Sometimes guys are lonely and need some attention to bring them back up. He's leaching on you. Have you blown him off? He's become lazy with you. If you have not, try it. He may actually get over what ever hang ups he has and ask you out again. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 If you aren't into him, then just tell him to not email/text you anymore. Link to comment
AmyeMae Posted August 5, 2009 Author Share Posted August 5, 2009 Are you interested in him is the question. Sounds like he's interested but shy or lack experience. I don't know. I don't know him that well. I think I saw him as more of a potential friend than anything else did you click with him? if not, just block him. Well....I've thought about not responding but then I feel bad about it. i don't want to be rude. I rather he stopped all contact Link to comment
BriarRose Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 Has he been contacting you all along or did he stop after the date and then start up again? If he has been contacting you all along, that is good....maybe he is shy. If he went awhile and didn't contact you and then started to, that is not good and I wouldn't bother. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 6, 2009 Share Posted August 6, 2009 I don't know. I don't know him that well. I think I saw him as more of a potential friend than anything else Well....I've thought about not responding but then I feel bad about it. i don't want to be rude. I rather he stopped all contact why feel bad? you don't owe him anything. Link to comment
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