kevin456 Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 I talked to my ex face-to-face today for the first time since she dumped me about 8 months ago. She started dating a guy about a month after me so at that point I cut off contact. 6 solid months of no contact since the break up, I was doing my thing at college, and this summer I was feeling good so I decided to test the waters (about a month ago, via text). We've been texting recently (mostly initiated by me), and whenever I brought up hanging out in person she was clearly reluctant. I told her that I was giving up, and that I wouldn't be bothering her anymore. Bingo. Complete 180 and just like that, she was down to hang out. I could tell she was nervous at first, but I made it very easy for her. We laughed together and had a really good time just talking about our lives. No boyfriend talk, no talking about the past. It went quite smoothly, even better than I thought it would. I'm sure she got the same impression. When I was dropping her off at home, it seemed like she wanted to stay longer, or she was waiting for me to initiate a hug or something (I didn't...I don't do hugs). She had a big smile on her face and I could tell she was really enjoying herself. So what do I do from here? I'm not trying to "get her back" per se, but I am trying to attract her back to me. I'm on kind of a short time scale here, as I'm going back to school in a month. Link to comment
Keyman Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 So, what's the purpose of 'attracting her back' if you are just going to go off to school again in a month. And what is the difference between 'get her back' and 'attract her back'? Link to comment
kevin456 Posted July 23, 2009 Author Share Posted July 23, 2009 Well I don't really want a relationship given that I'm about to go back to school (that separation helped break us up last time), but I could come around to the idea. Basically my goal is to have a lot of fun with her for the last month of the summer, if you catch my drift *wink* *elbow shot* Link to comment
Puckdog27 Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 So your goal is to use her? GROW UP Link to comment
kevin456 Posted July 23, 2009 Author Share Posted July 23, 2009 Not time to grow up yet, last time I checked I haven't even turned 20. Link to comment
moonbug Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 Not time to grow up yet, last time I checked I haven't even turned 20. Unbelievable! I think you must be pretty good at what you want to do. Nothing startling about what you want right? All you want to do is bed a girl for a month and then bolt. I am sure you are the type girls are attracted to, what with the 'I don't do hugs' and all! *wink* *elbow shot*! Oh and she probably has a boyfriend too? Way to go! But seriously, is there no one else you can get? I am sure there must be girls willing to do your thing. Why attract someone back when you can just attract someone? I usually try not to judge. Whatever gives you your kicks. Whatever rocks your boat. But something about what you want to do makes me sick. Link to comment
kevin456 Posted July 23, 2009 Author Share Posted July 23, 2009 the elbow shot thing was a joke, i got a good laugh out of it Link to comment
kevin456 Posted July 23, 2009 Author Share Posted July 23, 2009 I'm realizing now that I don't need this forum anymore. I've healed from my break up, and no advice on this forum is really going to help me. Don't worry though, I'm not leaving for good, I'll probably be back when the next girl breaks my heart. Peace! Link to comment
moonbug Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 the elbow shot thing was a joke, i got a good laugh out of it Glad you found it funny! Link to comment
SunniDee Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 Not time to grow up yet, last time I checked I haven't even turned 20. Just because you haven't hit 20 yet, doesn't mean you need to forget what your parents taught you about right and wrong. I hope this girl figures out your BS and runs for the hills. You're attitude in this thread kinda makes me start to wonder about why she dumped you. Sounds like you were too immature, which you yourself have admitted. Leave this girl alone. Link to comment
Brownstone322 Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 Not time to grow up yet, last time I checked I haven't even turned 20. As if we're supposed to be surprised. Link to comment
moonbug Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 I'm realizing now that I don't need this forum anymore. I've healed from my break up, and no advice on this forum is really going to help me. Don't worry though, I'm not leaving for good, I'll probably be back when the next girl breaks my heart. Peace! Wow, you seem to pretty sure that you will have your heart broken soon. You would do well to think of why girls break your heart. Maybe because you try to pull sh!t like this with girls? Link to comment
.jpg.1626fbc48c04fd9021fd315819807524.thumb.jpg.882936eb5901fa05cf31c75617acde2e.jpg)
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.