Mr SIBLEY Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 Basically, my girlfriend just started ranting and raving at me due to a text i sent her. This one: "I'll make sure we get to see each other in the week then. x" I was just wondering if anyone would find this text message offensive? I, for the life of me, can't figure out what would cause this response: "What do you mean you'll make sure. I'm not forcing you to see me. You know what, don't text back, I can't be f***** to argue with you, do me a favour and don't text back." What did I do exactly? I want to ask her if there was anything up with her but then she may just get even angrier because I text her. Help, anyone? Link to comment
Mutley Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 Have there been any other problems before this? Link to comment
Mr SIBLEY Posted June 3, 2009 Author Share Posted June 3, 2009 Have there been any other problems before this? Not really, nothing big. We haven't argued for weeks, it's been amazing until this. Link to comment
Mutley Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 That is weird. How long have you been dating? Link to comment
annie24 Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 what was she saying to you before that text? Link to comment
Mr SIBLEY Posted June 3, 2009 Author Share Posted June 3, 2009 We've been together for a month now. Not too long but, enough. what was she saying to you before that text? That she couldn't see me because she had work. Link to comment
waveseer Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 Why are you texting to make plans with her? Call her instead so there will be fewer misunderstandings. Link to comment
annie24 Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 i agree, call her and try to clear things up. texting isn't great because it leads to misunderstandings. Link to comment
Mr SIBLEY Posted June 3, 2009 Author Share Posted June 3, 2009 Will do. Thanks for the help, I'll tell ya how it goes. Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 Not really, nothing big. We haven't argued for weeks, it's been amazing until this. You've only been together for a month but you've already been having arguments? That doesn't sound good...did you date for a long time before you became official? Link to comment
Mutley Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 You've only been together for a month but you've already been having arguments? That doesn't sound good...did you date for a long time before you became official? I guess they would have argued at 2 weeks then? She doesn't sound like she's very nice to you, dude. Link to comment
guitargirl1607308056 Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 She doesn't sound like she's very nice to you, dude. Seriously. She kinda flew off the handle there, when all she needed to do was ask what you meant if she was unclear about the tone of your text. I agree with the others - call her and clear it up. And while you're at it, I don't think it would be out of line for you to say, "In the future if I've said something to upset you, let's try to work it out together instead of letting it escalate." Keep us posted. Link to comment
Ariel85 Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 I think she just showed you he chick crazy card, hon. That was nuts of her! You were being a good guy, saying you would definitely make time to see each other, and she goes off? Run. Link to comment
savagegirl Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 I think she just showed you he chick crazy card, hon. That was nuts of her! You were being a good guy, saying you would definitely make time to see each other, and she goes off? Run. No kidding... talking or TEXTING that way to you after only being with you for a month is so not cool. This girl sounds a little nuts. If she can talk to you this way already, what is going to happen in a few more months when she gets comfortable with you? Link to comment
Vince99 Posted June 3, 2009 Share Posted June 3, 2009 Another Textual Disaster. One of the mods should be keeping track of these for posterity and future posters. Link to comment
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