amour est toujours Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 My brother's girlfriend is one of the pickiest, meanest, and obnoxious people I have ever met. Her loud laugh pierces my eardrums and makes me sick. They have been dating for the past 2 years and live together. My two other brothers cannot stand her either. My brother "loves" her although he's never really shown any true signs of being in love in my opinion. I'm not trying to break them up. I just want to know how to deal. Any advice? Anyone feel my pain? Link to comment
hers Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 Stay out of their relationship and separate yourself as often as you can. And if you find yourself in a situation where you have to be around her, tell yourself you'll be away from her soon and be kind to her. Link to comment
lana111 Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 im assuming you dont live with your brother so how much "dealing" do you have to do? just be polite and civil when you are around her. and as mudders said, stay out of their relationship bc when you dont like this lady as much as you do, it could be easy to fall into that if you find an opportunity to voice your opinion. sorry you dont like her, thats sucks! but if he loves her and there are no things that are obliviously wrong (as in its not like you see her around town cheating on him and so on...) just bite your lip and smile! Link to comment
nutbrownhare Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 Oh dear! Just avoid as much as you can, and take tranquillisers when you're obliged to be with her (joke!). At least your other brothers agree with you, which probably helps a bit. People on the outside can never really judge what makes a relationship work, and she is clearly fulfilling a need of your brother's. Even if that's a mystery to everyone else. Link to comment
redhearts Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 Ear plugs, they may help. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 I'd avoid avoid avoid too. And not tell your bro anything. At least you have 2 other brothers who agree with you about how annoying she is.. If you have to be around her try and find someone else to hang with. Just try not to badmouth her. She could find out. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 15, 2008 Share Posted December 15, 2008 let your brother love. leave it alone. don't pay attention to her at all. Link to comment
Mutley Posted December 15, 2008 Share Posted December 15, 2008 Limit your contact as much as possible. Link to comment
Rabican Posted December 16, 2008 Share Posted December 16, 2008 Just politely avoid her any chance you get. She comes over your house... you make an excuse to leave. She shows up for holidays, go in the other room... And when you have to be near her, be polite but dont invite more conversation than necessary. Other than that... leave the situation alone. Its his girl, not yours... so its not your problem. Link to comment
Shyguy24 Posted December 16, 2008 Share Posted December 16, 2008 Be friendly but keep your distance, its not your problem. Link to comment
amour est toujours Posted August 14, 2009 Author Share Posted August 14, 2009 wedding bells are about to ring!!!! (kill me.) Link to comment
mca1975 Posted August 14, 2009 Share Posted August 14, 2009 Just avoid as much as you can, but always be civil. Link to comment
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