HellFrost666 Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 Would anyone else find this weird? My girlfriend's Mom called her earlier and asked her to go "SHopping" and then out for a drink. Well, her Mom wanted to go to a sex shop and didn't want to go all by herself. And while they were in there her Mom made all these suggestions of things my girlfriend should buy to use on me. Why does she care so much what goes on in our bedroom? And then she told my girl to pick something out, anything, and she would buy. SO she picked something out that was cheap, and then her Mom said no and insisted on buying her a $75 vibrator. And then when they came out of the store, her Mom was telling her how cool it is that they have such a great Mother/Daughter relationship that they could do this together. And my girlfriend told her Mom that she wasn't going to lie, this was a little awkward for her. And she feels bad now because she thinks she really hurt her Mom's feelings because her Mom barely said anything the whole way home. So does anyone have any insidht here? Not just on the obvious, but on how she should handle it if she upset her Mom. Link to comment
bijoux27 Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 I think her mom read too much cosmo, about mother-daughter bonding. But I suppose she had good intentions, so it shouldn't be too big of a deal. Link to comment
lisa1126 Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 Ummmmmmm, I must admit, it is a quite ackward situation. I have a grown daughter, I don't think I can ever take her shopping to the sex toy store. It just doesn't feel very right. It's not an ethical or moral question by any means, but I would personally never do that. I could understand how your girlfriend felt uncomfortable with that day. I am sorry, I can't offer any help. Just to let you know that your gf didn't do or say anything out of line under the circumstance. Link to comment
bijoux27 Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 I think her mom needs a woman closer to her age. Maybe she just wants to talk to someone about these things. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 Personally I would have crawled away and died! There is NO WAY I want to talk sex toys with my mom. EW Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted September 20, 2008 Author Share Posted September 20, 2008 Lol... and I just know her Mom will call her tomorrow and ask if she tried the toy and how was it. Link to comment
Alezia Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 I'm thinking maybe she had a hard time feeling comfortable and open with her own parents when she was little (her mom). She probably wanted to let her know that she was open to her daughter being sexual and in case she ever needed any advice ex: Birth control... It just comes off as her being "too open" - literally. Edit: I just read the part about using the toy - eugh that's a bit beyond. Link to comment
sophie274 Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 Lol... and I just know her Mom will call her tomorrow and ask if she tried the toy and how was it. And I thought MY mother was too close for comfort! If your girlfriend thinks she really upset her mother, it might be best to bring it up saying something like "I hope I didn't hurt your feelings. It's true that I felt a bit awkward shopping for toys with you - I want my sex life to remain private. I really appreciate that we are so close that you felt comfortable taking me with you, and I'm so happy that you're trying to spend time with me. I was just thinking, maybe we could ... fill in the blank ... (try out the new restaurant in town together, take a class at the gym together) ... sometime next week? I think it would be really fun!" or something similar. I think it's ok for her to let her mom know that she just doesn't feel comfortable shopping for sex toys together - but when she says it she should emphasize that she appreciates the effort to spend time together and that she wants to have quality time with her mom too. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 Yeah well a Mom is NOT a gf so to speak, it is your mom, and even as an adult I still view my mom as my mom, NOT a gf I talk with about EVERYTHING. Link to comment
chocolates Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 The problem is that everytime she goes to USE the toy, thoughts about her mother will pop in here head, and if that doesnt kill sex, I dont know what will. There are plenty of other ways for her to get close to her daughter. I mean I reckon lingerie shopping would be appropriate, but that would be as far as I would go- if my mother was still alive that is. She shouldnt feel bad about feeling awkward, and she shouldnt have to apologise. Her mother should know better. Frankly i dont know how u are going to be able to use this sex toy now. Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted September 20, 2008 Author Share Posted September 20, 2008 ^Well, consider her Mom picked it out and insisted on buying it for her she probably bought it for her to use alone. Just my guess, considering what kind of toy it is. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 The problem is that everytime she goes to USE the toy, thoughts about her mother will pop in here head, and if that doesnt kill sex, I dont know what will. There are plenty of other ways for her to get close to her daughter. I mean I reckon lingerie shopping would be appropriate, but that would be as far as I would go- if my mother was still alive that is. She shouldnt feel bad about feeling awkward, and she shouldnt have to apologise. Her mother should know better. Frankly i dont know how u are going to be able to use this sex toy now. Yeah I am sorry that would just GROSS ME OUT Her mom is trying TOO TOO hard to be a gf and not a mom. Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted September 20, 2008 Author Share Posted September 20, 2008 ^ Her Mom also had her when she was still a teenager. So her Mom is still pretty young. That could have something to do with it. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 I do not know. The horny mom talking to daughter about sex toys...UGH. OK I can see she is young but her daughter is not the person she should be going to about it. IMO Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted September 20, 2008 Author Share Posted September 20, 2008 ^ Yea... and she told me when they were in the store she couldn't stop giggling to herself, just like a teenage girl would be giggling in a store like that. She came home mildly inebriated and thinking she did something wrong. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 Well this topic just put me off sex for the night.....LOL Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted September 20, 2008 Author Share Posted September 20, 2008 ^ Sorry... but if it's any consolation I think it put me off for the night too. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 So much for that orgasm I was thinking about for later.....LOL, tell your gf's mom she made a hit on here as well.....LOL Link to comment
KG Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 That's just WRONG! IMHO. Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 i don't like when moms try to be more like best friends rather than mothers...and the vibrator thing is BEYOND!!! your poor g/f and now poor you b/c of the image in your head.... Link to comment
CrazyKing Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 What you do in your bedroom is a personal thing... That's the same as if someone on the street would start teaching you both how to talk or kiss... Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted September 20, 2008 Author Share Posted September 20, 2008 Allright... just as I predicted, her Mom just called here to ask how she likes her toy. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 The woman has some screws loose........ Link to comment
livinginsbi Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 hmmm it is strange... my daughter and I have a really good relationship (finally!!) we do talk about sex, in generalizations, but.... this .. ewww... we do have our boundaries. Link to comment
i_win Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 This thread is creepy. I definitely think the mom is trying to overcompensate by being overly open. No thanks though Mom. Link to comment
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