Indyjoe Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Hello, I have posted part of my story on here before and the main part of it is 6 weeks ago the girlfriend and I broke up. I had all intentions of getting back with her once I processed feelings from my divorce that was final 10 months ago. Well in the meantime about 10 days ago I find out she is engaged to be married. That hit me like a ton of bricks. We go to the same church and she has been bring her fiancee to church. Well I guess I love her more than I thought and so I proposed to her last Tuesday and got no reply after she said she was going to pray about it. So I called her Saturday and she returned the ring on Sunday. She is now upset with the pastor that I proposed to her and he had nothing to do with that at all. I guess I know rationally that no one who makes a decision to get married in 6 weeks can be trusted but we shared so much in our 2 years and now all of a sudden she pretends we did not exist. The new guy she is dating is a trauma nurse so I wonder if it is only about the money here. I admit I still have feelings for her and I sort of regret our break up 6 weeks ago or should I? What does it say about her character? Should I regret our breakup 6 weeks ago that drove her into another mans arms? Or I wonder if they were involved long before that 6 weeks. I am so confused, hurt and am mourning what we once had and it is now gone forever. She is going to be moving 250 miles away to a new town with no network of friends and taking her 2 high school boys out of school and relocating them. Thanks Link to comment
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