livinginsbi Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 My best friend just told me, via email, that he no longer wants to be my friend; I feel crushed. He and I have a history together, some of it being quite intimate, but we never had sex, that's how HE wanted it. For months he played the 'come here, go away' game with me... said he just couldn't bring himself to have a realtionship with me... was a confirmed bachelor, only to get intimate with me all over again, then the excuses again. In March, I asked him for the last time if his decision about 'us' was final and he said it was... so I told him that I was going to start talking to guys that showed an interet in me, because I DO want a realtionship with someone and he said he was OK with that. Last week I told him about the guy that I had been seeing and now my friend is mad at me because this guy and I have been intimate... said he couldn't believe that I would hurt him like this... and says he no longer considers me his friend. I feel crushed.... and pissed all at the same time. I feel like I'm in high school again.... why do guys act like that... he had his turn and turned me down... but yet I guess I'm not supposed to be with anyone else? Link to comment
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