Penny_Lane Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 I can understand that. I'm bi too. Women are beautiful and fun to explore, but my main attraction is to men. So many people think that the penis and balls are ugly, and I think they're gorgeous! I also happen to think that vaginas are beautiful too. I just prefer outies, and you perfer innies! lol Yay! I like how you worded that, innies and outies, lol Yeah I can't say I find penises and balls gorgeous, they're kind of...obnoxious. But hey, I'm to some other weird sh*t, lol. To each his own. Link to comment
morgane Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 i like to do it more than real sex, infact i give a man head most of the time instead of having sex with him. That's how much i love it Link to comment
anggrace Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 Being that he loves it, I do too. Link to comment
joan Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 I also enjoy giving ithem to my guy. The biggest turn off for me is when men expect to get them. I like to give them, not have them just expected as part of the day to day activities of the relationship. Link to comment
tiredofvampires Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 Sometimes it's a turn on, seeing your guy get all worked up, but it's not something I like to do all the time. I'm totally with you there. While writing my bills, no thank you. While weaving in and out of traffic (as the driver), it's really not all that great. Sometimes I just have to put my foot down and say, "Not now, can't you see?" Lol Jetta, sorry, just couldn't resist. i doubt many people like doing it for what it is, but they do it for the obvious pleasure it creates for their SO. So I'd say no, given a choice they probably wouldn't, but in order to make their SO happy (and some people get kicks out of that) they could (in theory) argue that they do like doing it. A thin line. But I'd suggest that no they don't enjoy the act of doing it, but they do enjoy the results (which is why they do it). This is a really reasonable take, tux, and I can see where you'd think that. But let me ask you this (I know this might be a bit hard to go with, as a guy, but just stay with me here): do you like popsicles? If so, think what about having a popsicle you really like. I mean, compared to say, just if you chewed some cold Skittles or something. When you take your popsicle out of the freezer, or pay the cash register dude, and are confronted with the wrapper, what are those feelings at that very moment? And when the popsicle is then revealed, what's the best moment? And when you are consuming it, how do you treat it? Do you just bite off large hunks and swallow them immediately? (Maybe so, I don't know what your style is, but anyways.) I would guess not. Do you use a fork and knife -- no, why not? So take all this and then imagine that instead of just finishing and tossing a sticky stick into the nearest trash receptacle, as you reach said stick, the popsicle suddenly grabs you by the hair and screams at you, "God, you're so good!!!!" What's not to like about that? Link to comment
JadedStar Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 I enjoy it but I know most women don't. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 Don't think anyone can argue with that! Yeah, what she said! LOL Link to comment
d24 Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 So take all this and then imagine that instead of just finishing and tossing a sticky stick into the nearest trash receptacle, as you reach said stick, the popsicle suddenly grabs you by the hair and screams at you, "God, you're so good!!!!" What's not to like about that? No I completely agree, you love doing it because you know your SO loves receiving it. But if you didn't think he was enjoying it - I doubt there'd be any woman here (or in the entire world) who'd continue doing it on their own free will just because they like having it in their mouth or something. (and please ignore 'rape' or 'unhappy' scenarios, and focus on an example of male apathy to your giving him oral at that time) So as a result, you can see that women do it because they want to please their SO (as you alluded to above) and because it makes themselves feel better about themselves when they're so obviously 'wanted', and if you think about it logically that's the only reason why they do it in the first place (making their man happy). So I can see why women would argue they like them, because they like to please their man, but that's the only reason they do it, so in a sense it's not pleasurable to them at all (and i'd like to cite getting wet from giving a bj is not evidence of enjoyment because that's purely psychological as you're not (usually) being touched in any erogenous zones and you're just getting turned on by turning him on (psychological)) Link to comment
KG Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 "So take all this and then imagine that instead of just finishing and tossing a sticky stick into the nearest trash receptacle, as you reach said stick, the popsicle suddenly grabs you by the hair and screams at you, "God, you're so good!!!!" jEEEZ! That's HOT!!!!! WHEW! Link to comment
tiredofvampires Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 No I completely agree, you love doing it because you know your SO loves receiving it. But if you didn't think he was enjoying it - I doubt there'd be any woman here (or in the entire world) who'd continue doing it on their own free will just because they like having it in their mouth or something. Okay, I admit that I wouldn't wrap my mouth around a dildo. I agree, what's the point in that? (Unless I was going through a super dry spell and wanted to make sure to keep my face in shape...or just to keep the old age wrinkles at bay....wait, I'm in a dry spell and feeling sorta old, lol) So yeah, I wouldn't really enjoy shoving a male appendage in my mouth if I knew it was displeasing to him. But it's a far step from that to this: So I can see why women would argue they like them, because they like to please their man, but that's the only reason they do it, so in a sense it's not pleasurable to them at all I'm not sure why you're so invested in making sure to impress upon us that women don't actually enjoy it for IT, and that they are claiming they enjoy it but are dissimulating about the REAL reasons they enjoy it. Why are you so interested in proving women's assertions wrong about what they like? You've apparently missed the whole first part of the popsicle analogy. There's a sensory component about that you've just tuned out. Link to comment
emmie_g Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 I like doing it but hate being asked! Link to comment
Tulip 128 Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 i LOVE it. it gets me very excited to know he's enjoying himself. Link to comment
alcide Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 I wont give any guy blows, but i love it . i love givin it. Link to comment
meepmeep20 Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 Not really. I've always been disgusted by it. Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 This should have been set up on a poll (no pun intended) for ongoing tally. I'd say the head bobbing goalies have it though... Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 Love giving them ^-^ Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 Love giving them ^-^ Marry me!?! Just kidding... Link to comment
bijoux27 Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 I like it. Not just cause he likes it - I like doing it on him. Yummy. Link to comment
morgane Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 I like it. Not just cause he likes it - I like doing it on him. Yummy. hahhahaa same, i think i have an addiction with it like others have caffine/coffee adiction. Oh, naughty me Link to comment
bijoux27 Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 hahhahaa same, i think i have an addiction with it like others have caffine/coffee adiction. Oh, naughty me LOL I wouldn't call it an addiction but it's fun to play with Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 hahhahaa same, i think i have an addiction with it like others have caffine/coffee adiction. Oh, naughty me It certainly beats a cig habit. Better for your health too... Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 depends on the person and his attitude if it's out of love or when I really attracted and it hasn't got to do with incest or forced while you don't want it I guess in most cases I would like it Link to comment
morgane Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 LOL I wouldn't call it an addiction but it's fun to play with hahaha i love you! Link to comment
333 Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 haha it is fun to play with! but i love giving them to someone i love, no doubt about it. if youre enthusiastic about it, the act will be more pleasurable, pleasing and rewarding to both "parties" so to say, heh. i mean, i'm surely not the one getting off on it, but i love to make him happy. plus hey, my turn comes next, right? incentive.. Link to comment
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