greensleeves Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 "I don't think I'll ever love anyone more than I love myself"QUOTE] LMAO!! This one should win a prize. Link to comment
John Bendix Posted July 15, 2008 Author Share Posted July 15, 2008 Anyone care to put a translation to that one? Link to comment
allypally Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 "You're too good for me, I don't deserve you". "I love you but I'm not in love with you" "I want you to be happy ....I think we should go our separate ways" (meaning they are not happy and want to high tail it out of there). Some classics......... Link to comment
darkblue Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 Also from the same ex "I don't think I'll ever love anyone more than I love myself" How modest of him. He sounds like a wonderful man... how did you ever let him go?.... Link to comment
lapseinjudgement Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 "I never wanted to hurt you but now I have" (you wouldnt catch the clue) Link to comment
greensleeves Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 "I don't think I'll ever love anyone more than I love myself"QUOTE] Anyone care to put a translation to that one? I'd say he's at least acknowledging that he's a narcissist and unable to take part in a healthy relationship requiring give and take. Link to comment
Purple1 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 How modest of him. He sounds like a wonderful man... how did you ever let him go?.... LOL! This was the man I stayed with for 6 years if you can believe it! He was quite charming and charismatic at one point, and I had no self esteem... not a good combiination! Link to comment
DN Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 "I don't think I'll ever love anyone more than I love myself"QUOTE] LMAO!! This one should win a prize.At least it is someone who is self aware and honest enough to admit it. Probably end up with a mirror for a life companion but whatever rocks his world. Link to comment
Purple1 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 At least it is someone who is self aware and honest enough to admit it. Probably end up with a mirror for a life companion but whatever rocks his world. Lol! Most likely! I can happily say now... I will never love that man as much as I love myself! Link to comment
John Bendix Posted July 16, 2008 Author Share Posted July 16, 2008 Purple, Good for you! -"I am in a place in my life where I can only look after myself." (If he/she believes this, I'm really glad I am dumping him/her) Link to comment
John Bendix Posted July 16, 2008 Author Share Posted July 16, 2008 I do not see any future in this relationship. (I do not see any present in it either) Link to comment
bartels Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 How an honest reason? "You're a wonderful person, and I enjoy the time we have spent together, but I'm just not feeling that spark anymore, and it's not fair to you or me for us to continue on like this, wasting each other's time if we don't both agree that we have a future together". Link to comment
trash mail Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 don't call me, i will call you. Link to comment
woahisme13 Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 I actually got these 2 Friday Night. "I'm leaving in June and we both knew that going in. I'm starting to get attached and I think you are too. If we keep going it's going to be so much harder when I leave." "I just don't have time to be someone's girlfriend right now. You're and Awesome guy and I really like you, it's just bad timing. Please don't take it to heart." Link to comment
HoTung Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 We're at different stages in our lives - u knew how old i was when i met u? I just don't have those feelings for you I will NEVER fall in love with you Link to comment
tin_tin Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 "I dont want to be in a serious relationship right now, it feels like we are an old married couple" This after being together 3 years!! and her doing most of the pushing during the relationship! Link to comment
thedude27 Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 "You have a special place in my heart, I'll always love you" (now get out of my life because I have a date...haha) Link to comment
nofalsehope Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 I just got the combination of "We are at different places in our life", "I don't know if I love you the way you love me", "I need to work on me", "We have different priorities", "My feelings have changed", "If we are meant to be together we will", "I know this is not what you want, this is what I want", "I don't want to lose our friendship, I do love you, you are my best friend, no one knows me like you do", "I have trouble expressing love and don't know if it's you or me"...you get the idea. My translation...I haven't been with enough guys to know if you are the one, I have found another guy and this makes it sound OK, I don't want to burn any bridges in case I don't like what else is out there... I would like to think if she ever loved me at all she was telling the truth and not trying to hide the truth. I would like to think if she loved me, she would not have spent all this time "acting" and would have owed up to it when I tried to address her emotional withdrawal in our relationship. I would like to think what she said was honest and truthful, recognizing she really was unhappy and wants to work on her (not work it with some ****). I would like to think if she was confused and met someone else she could have admitted it. None of it makes sense when all this gets unloaded out of the blue with no warning. With what I have experienced, it all seems to mean she has found someone else or wants to and that possible lie is worse than the emotional pain of a breakup. Link to comment
hamhot Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 "I discussed it with my friends, and I don't see a future with you." This was in an email, after nearly 5 years together. Link to comment
SpaceGray Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 Has this one been said? "God says we can't be together..." LMAO Link to comment
Kraven Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 "He (referring to me) is too nice. I like guys that are slightly bad". My ex told this to a friend when the friend asked why we broke up. Link to comment
SighSob Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 I got the same lines and I've come to the same conclusions. Oh other lines I got: "You deserve someone better than me" (I deserve someone better than you and I finally found him) "It's not you it's me" (I want to have sex with this other guy, nothing you will do or say will make me change my mind) "If we're meant to be we'll be" (Let me see if this other guy is nice, sweet and loving other than good looking...if he's not, I will come back to you cause I don't want to be alone) Link to comment
HereIGoAgain Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 Haven't seen the one I got so far but I guess it's a variation of 'It's not me, it's you' where my ex said, 'You wouldn't change for me'. Link to comment
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