SAMRA2 Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 I have only been having sex for a year (and infrequently too) but i already feel I dont feel as much as i used to in the beginning during penetration. Its like i need increasingly a "bigger" size to really enjoy it. is that normal? I am 23. is there an way to tighten myself down there ? another unrelated question: why do guys like to pull on the girls hair when doing it doggie style? i noticed that all the guys i have slept with really like it.. is it a power thing?? thanks! Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 I have only been having sex for a year (and infrequently too) but i already feel I dont feel as much as i used to in the beginning during penetration. Its like i need increasingly a "bigger" size to really enjoy it. is that normal? I am 23. is there an way to tighten myself down there ? penis pills, penis pump.... another unrelated question: why do guys like to pull on the girls hair when doing it doggie style? i noticed that all the guys i have slept with really like it.. is it a power thing?? beacuse girls like it..... thanks! are you a man or a woman? beacuse your post sounds like you could be either Link to comment
doyathink Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 are you a man or a woman? beacuse your post sounds like you could be either I wondered the same thing at first, but I believe this is a female. Link to comment
SAMRA2 Posted March 12, 2008 Author Share Posted March 12, 2008 I am a woman. is it really cause women like it?? just that? nothing else? weird.. Link to comment
CandyKins Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Well yeah it could be a "power thing". But urm I would hate to have sex with someone just so he can have power or control over me. Penis enlargement pills contain herbal extracts and are all natural. They are not known to have any side effects or to cause any pain or other physical discomfort. These herbal pills would be not good for you only of you are allergic to any of the ingredients, which is highly unlikely. Aphrodisiac herbs in pills aim to improve sexual desire and sensation, which I believe that is what you are trying to gain. Whatever you do don't pull, stretch, squeeze or do anything similar to that to your penis. But really, the penis shouldn't be a big deal when it comes to sex. When two people have sex they need to feel each other. Link to comment
watupgangsta Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 i thought it was all about how you use it????? lol Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 I was pretty confused myself. I guessed girl but wasn't sure. Anyway, as you have sex, the vagina stretches out. You can try tightening it by doing sexorcises. Not kidding. Tighten the muscles that you use to stop yourself from peeing. Flexing these can actually help tighten the vagina and make it easier to reach orgasm. Link to comment
fire_fly Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Do the Kegel exercise. It won't make your vagina smaller but it helps strengthen your pelvic floor muscles - which means you're able to squeeze him harder down there when he's inside you. And yes, men like pulling hair while doing the doggie because it's an ego thing for them. I, myself, don't particularly care for the hair pulling because it freaking hurts! Link to comment
rosephase Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Have you ever tried Kegel exercises? Take a look... link removed Link to comment
PocoDiablo Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Another vote for Kegels. However, I know plenty of women who need more and more. Seems to be the natural way of things. Don't ask me why, I don't know, but I've heard plenty of women complaining about their BF's. Solution? Get a bigger BF if it's all that important? By the way, penis pills don't work, penis pumps cause serious damage. Any guy who uses those is asking for problems. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 By the way, penis pills don't work, penis pumps cause serious damage. Any guy who uses those is asking for problems. Yes, this is true. The only real way to increase a penis size is surgery. And even then, it's only like a .4 inch increase at the most. Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 lol Kegels!! im a dude and i did that for a good year.. now if i dont wanna finish i have the ability to hold it for multiple OG's YAAY! Link to comment
enchiladaman Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 I got repremanded once by my GF because I don't pull her hair. And my other gf before her also asked for that as well... So my guess is a lot of women like it and so your BF's probably assumed you would to. Never assume If it bothers, tell them so in a nice way. Otherwise I'd say let it go. Link to comment
Siriana Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Hm...maybe you just need a bigger one if you don't like being pulled for your hair you can choose not to. I never met a guy who liked it. (or maybe better to say had guts to try it ;-)) Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 i pull hair. not crazy though. just enough to give an erotic feeling to the woman like she is being over powered. haven't had a complaint. Link to comment
livinginsbi Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 hair pulling is nice - as long as he isn't pulling to hard. I also like when he pins my wrists down when he's on top, especially over my head. It's interesting, in every other aspect of my life, I'm the one in charge, either because I have to be, or it's my job - but this is one area of life I'm ok with not being in charge (at least not ALL the time!) Link to comment
Siriana Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 I also like when he pins my wrists down when he's on top, especially over my head. Thats what I like. Hair thing, not really. Link to comment
Clabs Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Hey SAMRA First off, sorry about the confusion about which sex you are! I'd avoid the penis enlargement pills because they are unlikely to help you! I would recommend the kegel exercises too - improve your pelvic muscles and allow you more power to grip. So far as the hair pulling thing is concerned, I am sure that this is a basic animal domination thing. Look at that video clip they always show on the wildlife channels where the lions are having sex and he is holding onto the femails neck. Hair pulling, pinning down - all the same domination thing. Each to their own, I guess. Mark Link to comment
darkblue Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Pelvis exercises apparently help. Pulling hair? Sounds strange to me. Perhaps they think they're in some sort of pornography video... Link to comment
doyathink Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 hair pulling is nice - as long as he isn't pulling to hard. I also like when he pins my wrists down when he's on top, especially over my head. It's interesting, in every other aspect of my life, I'm the one in charge, either because I have to be, or it's my job - but this is one area of life I'm ok with not being in charge (at least not ALL the time!) *Gulp* do they still make men like this? I've been out of the dating scene for awhile. Link to comment
enchiladaman Posted March 13, 2008 Share Posted March 13, 2008 Yeah, over the head was requested a lot too with my old gf's. They like feeling consumed and dominated by a male. Makes sense to me since I enjoy dominating Roar! Link to comment
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