midnightrambler Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 i know he does and i haven't. but its stupid to get all anal that im going out ... when he is going out even more then i am. how can he even get mad about that? it's ... just stupid. who said his feelings are fair and logical...of course they are stupid----don't give in Link to comment
metrogirl Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Eventually he will get over it. What is he going to do, stay pissed off forever? Hopefully he will find someone else to fixate on and leave you alone. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted March 19, 2008 Author Share Posted March 19, 2008 im not going to lie ... it's sooooooooo hard to give in. i was doing fine when he wasn't contacting me but NOW all of a sudden he feels the need to ......... i want to text him and just tell him ........... i dont know what i want to tell him .............. but the urge is killing me. knowing me ........ i prob will. he's got me all flustered again damnit. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Just re-read that nasty email he sent to you.....Everytime you get that urge to talk to him, you look at that email...... He doesn't deserve the time it takes to even send a text. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted March 19, 2008 Author Share Posted March 19, 2008 I don't get all butt chapped that he is going out EVERY night til wee hours of the morning ........ but he gets butt chapped that i go out . just out. it really ticks me off oh my god i wanna scream! Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 I don't get all butt chapped that he is going out EVERY night til wee hours of the morning ........ but he gets butt chapped that i go out . just out. it really ticks me off oh my god i wanna scream! he is treating you like a high schooler.....to h#ll with him and his game Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted March 19, 2008 Author Share Posted March 19, 2008 he is treating you like a high schooler.....to h#ll with him and his game EXACTLY! i dont know why i care so much. its pathetic. i shouldn't have wrote him back. he wasn't sincere. he was just trying to get a reaction. he's thriving on ANY reaction from me. its sick. Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 im not going to lie ... it's sooooooooo hard to give in. i was doing fine when he wasn't contacting me but NOW all of a sudden he feels the need to ......... i want to text him and just tell him ........... i dont know what i want to tell him .............. but the urge is killing me. knowing me ........ i prob will. he's got me all flustered again damnit. He wins again! Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 EXACTLY! i dont know why i care so much. its pathetic. i shouldn't have wrote him back. he wasn't sincere. he was just trying to get a reaction. he's thriving on ANY reaction from me. its sick. that's right...you have his game figured out...... Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted March 19, 2008 Author Share Posted March 19, 2008 i won't. i won't text him. i just feel that way now. but this is distracting me. i won't. it was my bad to write him back when he wrote the first time. but i wont do it again. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted March 19, 2008 Author Share Posted March 19, 2008 what nerve he had to ask me where i was?! like seriously .. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted March 19, 2008 Author Share Posted March 19, 2008 someone please explain what he's trying to get out of this? he doesn't want me back ... do what is it? Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 what nerve he had to ask me where i was?! like seriously .. get a new phone number and that will freak him out and cut off his lifeline Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 someone please explain what he's trying to get out of this? he doesn't want me back ... do what is it? he can't have you so no one else will.....as long as you are in a state of disarray he figures you will be good for no one.....an angry reaction from you is at least a small way of you being in his life Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted March 19, 2008 Author Share Posted March 19, 2008 this was HIS choice ....... so why play such a stupid game??? does anyone think he is regretting his actions? his desiscion? Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 this was HIS choice ....... so why play such a stupid game??? does anyone think he is regretting his actions? his desiscion? of course he does......these actions have separated him from you. he regrets being caught even more Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted March 19, 2008 Author Share Posted March 19, 2008 i wonder if he misses me at all ... if he is ever sad about it at all ... he said it himself "im not ok" whatever that is supposed to mean. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 this was HIS choice ....... so why play such a stupid game??? does anyone think he is regretting his actions? his desiscion? because he knows that he can still easily suck you into this game. this is where you turn the tables and show him that you aren't playing his silly little games. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 i wonder if he misses me at all ... if he is ever sad about it at all ... he said it himself "im not ok" whatever that is supposed to mean. sucking you back.......... Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted March 19, 2008 Author Share Posted March 19, 2008 god. this is horrible. i was fine. whyyyyyyyyyy did he text me!!!!!!!!!!!!! i cannot help but wonder what is going through his sick little head. does he waste time missing me ... does he spend time thinking about me? or is it ALL about NOT wanting to see me with someone new ya know Link to comment
JadedStar Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 The fact that you wondering if he misses you after those trashy things he said about you is proof that 1) you are going to call him back and you two are going to be right back to square one adn 2) you have as little respect for yourself as he does bceauae most people who love themselves do not give a crap if some a hole misses them who would say such thigns ... Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 god. this is horrible. i was fine. whyyyyyyyyyy did he text me!!!!!!!!!!!!! i cannot help but wonder what is going through his sick little head. does he waste time missing me ... does he spend time thinking about me? or is it ALL about NOT wanting to see me with someone new ya know i vote for #3 Link to comment
metrogirl Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 He said he isn't okay because he wants you to feel sorry for him. Once you start feeling sorry for him then he knows that he will get you to talk to him a little more each time. Barbie, I guilty of being in your shoes with my ex.....He would do the whole nice/jerk thing with me and I fell for it, time and time again...We do this because we love them and want to think that they are going to change, but they can't change and they won't change. So what is a girl to do? Change herself.......Make yourself better than what you are now.....Whatever it is that you are feeling, he likely created that in you. It's ur time to reflect on how much pain and turmoil he has caused you and how much he continues to try and cause you and put your foot down and say "i'm not taking this crap anymore". Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted March 19, 2008 Author Share Posted March 19, 2008 i vote 3 too. he even said it that morning that we talked ... that he can't be with me ... but that he doesn't want to see me with someone new ... but that was no reason to stay with me .... if you dont want to be with someone ... then you shouldn't fear seeing them with someone new so much. what does he think is going to happen? that i am going to live the rest of my life wanting him ... waiting for him ... he's wrong. i admit yes part of me .... is confused as hell but the other part of me knows his games. i won't let myself fall back in ..... i can't. i won't fall for it. he's a little boy. he is playing games. whatever he expects out of these games .. he's not going to get it. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 i vote 3 too. he even said it that morning that we talked ... that he can't be with me ... but that he doesn't want to see me with someone new ... but that was no reason to stay with me .... if you dont want to be with someone ... then you shouldn't fear seeing them with someone new so much. what does he think is going to happen? that i am going to live the rest of my life wanting him ... waiting for him ... he's wrong. and jaded, yes part of me .... is confused as hell but the other part of me knows his games. i won't let myself fall back in ..... i can't. his thoughts are not rational by I understand them......sounds like he treated you like a prize or a possession Link to comment
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