samross Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 She may yet come around for you - maybe she just isn't ready yet for a true lasting relationship. Work on you so that it doesn't and won't matter. That's what I'm doing. Link to comment
sadcomposer Posted January 5, 2008 Author Share Posted January 5, 2008 She took the time to go to her office to write me an email today. Hi*** I got the book. The shipping is expensive!!! Thousand thanks *** Is she trying to piss me off? Why not offer to pay for the stupid shipping!!! I am not answering. NC for me. Link to comment
CatsMeeoow Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 Why would sending a thanks piss you off? I think she appreciates it AND realizes it wasn't cheap to do. Why go off the deep end about it? I think you are reading tone and emotion and you just can't do that in a text. Link to comment
sadcomposer Posted January 6, 2008 Author Share Posted January 6, 2008 You are right Cats, I was upset, I should take it at face value. She just called me, but did not leave a message, so I'm sticking to NC. Link to comment
CatsMeeoow Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 By golley why? She's making an effort and trust me - if you don't at least give her some slack she'll be gone for good. Call her back - then if you feel you are not getting what you are looking for then straight out tell her you want reconcilation or nothing then go about your life. I think you are being most foolish. Link to comment
sadcomposer Posted January 6, 2008 Author Share Posted January 6, 2008 Well, I just called her back. We spoke for about a half hour, it was all very emotional. We decided to go see a counselor and then go from there. I am happy obviously, but scared at the same time. Wish us luck. I guess NC does work. Link to comment
CatsMeeoow Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 That's a step in the right direction! Link to comment
sadcomposer Posted January 7, 2008 Author Share Posted January 7, 2008 Well, she came to my place last night. We had a really good talk and a very pleasant evening. I think we can make it work. Needless to say I am a much happier person today. Link to comment
samross Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 sad I am so happy for you! You've hung in there and I wish you the best. It's my turn in the barrel now. I thought I was doing better but this weekend proved I'm not. Anyway, I am very happy for you! Link to comment
sadcomposer Posted August 5, 2008 Author Share Posted August 5, 2008 This is a bump for those interested. Link to comment
sadcomposer Posted August 5, 2008 Author Share Posted August 5, 2008 please ignore this thread, I bumped the wrong one. Link to comment
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