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CatsMeeoow

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  1. That's lovely... I'm so sorry for your loss... the holidays can be so harsh but that is one very lovely wish. hugs, Cats
  2. All I'm saying is that when this guy ended it with me - if I had just said... "Okay, I agree, blah blah blah" it would have been completely finished. Instead I politely and quietly told him how I felt. And, you know what he said to me? He had no idea I was feeling that way and for that long. He realized then how much I did care for him. Of course hearing that after just making the decision to end it did not immediately change his feelings but he said it gave him something to think about. Now I need to give him the time to think. I was me - by stating my opinion and my feelings on the matter calmly and nicely. Had I not... he would not be thinking anything other than the fact he wasted a year and a half chasing me. That's not going to bring him back. The bottom line is that there is never a right answer or a wrong answer.
  3. I disagree ---- Yes there are some instances where agreeing with the break up can be a useful tactic but I feel that there are an equal number of times the person is going to go... oh she/he wasn't that into this anyway and just move forward not realizing what you truly meant to the other person. And - R you thought it worked for you the first time and perhaps it did or did it? You were on the same road once again. I think the best thing you can do during a break up is be yourself. Of course realize that anything you say in anger or in the heat of the moment is NEVER a good idea as you can quickly regret it as soon as the words fly out of your mouth. But, be who you are. I suck at breakups... I hate not being in control... I tend to make my self and my feelings heard. Sure I probably need to learn to keep some of that emotion in check and realize that there is a time and place to say those things... and saying them over and over isn't helpful. But, I believe there is a guy who will love me and adore me for being a bit of nut sometimes... because 99% of the other times... I'm amazing!!!!!
  4. No... But don't spend so much time analyzing it... you're trying too hard. Accept it for what it is... chit chat. Who knows maybe it turns into more and then maybe it doesn't. Don't hang on his every word... it lowers your attraction. Instead think of him hanging on to yours!
  5. Try letting it go. There really isn't anything to report as you didn't get the job. I mean what will happen? You text I didn't get the job. He text sorry better luck with next one? And then you go to bed trying to figure out his hidden meaning (only there is none!) Give yourself more time. Let him come up with a more relevent question to discuss. He expects you to text - show him you are unpredictable!
  6. Mike ---- The problem with walking accross the Golden Gate Bridge is that you have to turn around and walk back! LOL! I did that - gosh that was years ago. And I must say sneaking off to the movies by yourself is sooooo liberating! People freak out when I tell them I went alone - why is that? Why must we always be doing things in pairs???? Good Luck!
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