Need some advice

[lost_for_words]

My bf and I broke up 12 days ago. We've had some contact over that time (only in text messages) - the first few days were me doing the wrong stuff, 'I want you back' - 'I still love you' etc. but the last couple of days has been fairly light hearted chit-chat.

 

He's adamant he still wants us to be friends, and much as I'd like that too there's still that hope in me that he'll see me and think 'Yeah, I do still want to be with her, what was I thinking walking out like that'

 

Anyway, the problem for today is this... I have his football ticket which he needs by Saturday. Should I say its okay for us to meet briefly to hand it over. That way I get to see him and I have been missing him so much I kinda think I'd like to, or would it be too soon?

 

I can't decide what to do, so guessed I'd ask your advice

[HappyAsALark]

I don't see anything wrong with quickly giving him the ticket. Mail prob would not work because of the holiday Thursday. Just give it to him. Or put it in his mailbox, or find a friend that you trust.

[luvmykids]

I'm kinda in the same boat. Can't be friends right now..Ive been in NC but he contacts me....It's hard. Dont know what to tell you, but when I figure it out....I'll be there for ya.

[luvmykids]

I know for me...seeing him right now would not be good. havent seen him in 3 weeks today. Im glad I dont have anything of his here and nothing to have a reason to see him....I feel for ya.

[beauty21]

Why would you want to hurt yourself even more? I understand he needs this ticket, but you are hanging on false hope. That is not good, when you are trying to heal. It is not going to do anything except take you three steps back. Why would you want to undo all the progress you have made?

 

Leave it on the doorstep when you go to work and tell him to pick it up when you are gone.

[lost_for_words]

Ok, I've emailed to tell him I don't think we should meet up.

Unfortunately I don't know his friends phone numbers to ask them to pass the ticket on to him, and he hasn't told me where he's living yet so I've suggested that I post it to him, but if he doesn't want me to know where he lives just yet then could I have his work address to forward it there for him.

 

I do want to see him - but maybe when I'm feeling a little stronger.

[luvmykids]

Has he contacted you about the ticket?

[lost_for_words]

Yes, he mentioned it in a message to me earlier - I knew I had it here and thought maybe I'd feel up to seeing him before Saturday - but maybe that wasn't my best idea

[luvmykids]

Tape it to your door and tell him a good time to pick it up?