Boughs Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Ok obviously we will embelish/reduce our numbers but I'm curious as to what people have and what they think is excessive so here it goes. And by sex i mean intercourse. Age: Sex: Partners: Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: ---- Age: 21 Sex: Male Partners: about 8 Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: Not really, however I don't think its that few either. I think 1-2 Partners a year is a good number in my eyes. I've been having sex since I just turned 17, and I just turned 21. 2 one night stands, 3 long term partners, and 3 casuals (people I knew pretty well)... maybe more but they slip my mind, and I doubt its any more than 2-3 more. Link to comment
musicguy Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 I think that this is private information and a lot of people are not gonna share said info Link to comment
cichlid Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Age: 22 Sex: Female Partners: 0 sexual partners (through choice!) Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: Hahahaha...of course not! Though I plan to only have one sexual partner in my lifetime. Link to comment
Boughs Posted September 17, 2007 Author Share Posted September 17, 2007 But its an anonymous forum, just trying to see some statistics. Link to comment
Blackhawk2009 Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Age:18 Sex Partners:0 Oh of course i have tons of partners Link to comment
PeanutButter Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Age: haa rather not say!! Sex: female Partners: 1 by choice, 1 not by choice. Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: nope, the first time that happened to me i got slipped something and was knocked out. second time by choice but i freaked so yeh. lol nope i dont. Link to comment
CluelessGuy321 Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Ok obviously we will embelish/reduce our numbers but I'm curious as to what people have and what they think is excessive so here it goes. And by sex i mean intercourse. Age: Sex: Partners: Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: ---- Age: 26 Sex: M Partners: 0 Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: Sure I do. I just wish they was in the room Link to comment
PeanutButter Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Age: 26 Sex: M Partners: 0 Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: Sure I do. I just wish they was in the room lol, where yooh trying to be funny there? Link to comment
dietrying Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Age: 19 Sex: female Partners: 0 Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: 0 obviously isn't a lot, but if there were a handful I'd see it as a lot. Ideally I want someone who hasn't had any so we can be each other's only sexual partner for the rest of our lives. Hey I can dream can't I. Link to comment
musicguy Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 okay okay, I'll do it. Age: 28 Sex: yes and male Partners: 2 Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: nope, but I'm always looking for more Link to comment
Batya33 Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 I think there is a certain number that is excessive but numbers don't tell the whole story. It depends on whether the person had many one night stands, was careful about STDs, his or her morals/values about sex, etc. Link to comment
Boughs Posted September 17, 2007 Author Share Posted September 17, 2007 good call Batya. Had many one night stands: 2 with intercourse. Careful about STDs: sadly no Have STDs: nope, I've been lucky, i get checked 3 months after every encounter. Now use condoms until both parties are checked. Morals on sex: probably not the best, but as I've matured have definitely become more important. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 A person having an excessive number is something that is completely subjective, since each person is going to analyze the other persons number with repect to their own personal number. If you are going to do any analysis on the number of partners then there is a two step process which involves the number the person has and the next step is looking to see if the person has changed their ways of if they still operate in the same manner as they had in the past in order to get their current number. Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Age/Sex Number = 3 No, I don't think it's high at all. Link to comment
CluelessGuy321 Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 lol, where yooh trying to be funny there? __________________ a bOy gives his girl 12 roses 1 fake. and said, "I'll love you 'till the last one dies." now, why can't I meet the sweet ones like that? No <:> Oh, and if we're thinking of the same person, he uses that trick with all the girls he meets. And really, he's not lying. The last one doesn't count because it was never alive to begin with. Link to comment
Godless_Heathen Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Age: 42 Gender: male Number of sexual partners: 4 long lasting sexual relationships, 1 that broke up immediately after we slept together (and yes, that was the worst downer imaginable) And no, I've never had a STD. I generally haven't used condoms (which is a story in itself), but my relationships were with women who hadn't had many sexual partners themselves. I have been tested for STDs a couple of times. Not because I was concerned, but because other stuff required it. Link to comment
Boughs Posted September 17, 2007 Author Share Posted September 17, 2007 Hmm, i guess I am a bit of a jerkoff. Well looks like I'm changing that about myself. Thanks peoples. Link to comment
MargaretK Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Age: 25 Sex: Bonnie Lass Partners: 7 Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: Not really. Considering the age we live in. I think its up to the individual how many is too many. As long as it is all safe sex and no one gets hurt, whats the problem? Link to comment
MargaretK Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Hmm, i guess I am a bit of a jerkoff. Well looks like I'm changing that about myself. Thanks peoples. HEY!!! your not a jerk off. If your a jerk off then I am a hussy hehehe Don't be hard on yourself we are only human! Link to comment
Cooperstown Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Age:24 Male Partners:7 2 were long term relationships, 4 were casual dating situations, and one was a one night stand where I passed out and was informed I had sex with said girl the previous night. Do I consider this a lot? No not really, I don't really sleep around. The casual dating situations I had intentions of going to the next level but it obviously didn't end up getting there. Link to comment
MissyM Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Age: 28 Sex: F Partners: 25-30 Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: I'd say above average. Had a fair few one night stands, I've not regretted anything and I've never had an STD or unwanted pregancy. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Age: 25 Sex: F Partners:18 I don't feel like I've had a lot of partners, but I don't plan on having anymore. I've had 1 one night stand. We'd been friends for a few yrs, but took it a little further one night. No STD's get checked annually. (I know I'm not cheating but you can never be too sure about what THEY're doing.) No unwanted pregnancies. My boyfriend and I got pregnant but I miscarried. Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Age: 21 Sex: Female Partners: 1 Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: Hell nawwww! LOL Link to comment
Nixee Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 Ok obviously we will embelish/reduce our numbers but I'm curious as to what people have and what they think is excessive so here it goes. And by sex i mean intercourse. Age: Sex: Partners: Do you consider yourself to have had a lot of partners?: Age: 27 Sex: F Partners: 8 A lot? meh.. I'd say average in this day and age. Most all of them were someone I was involved with for at least a short while, the exception being one booty call friend... and I know all of their first and last names, so hey... proud of that! I don't think the number is such a big deal nowadays anyhow. I think just about the only thing you can guess about someone with really high numbers is that maybe they either have fear of commitment or really just don't want to commit yet... and that they are pretty sexual. Having tons of partners can be a symptom of some issues, but its certainly not a problem in and of itself. Just my two cents... gotta look at a person as a whole, not just their stats. Link to comment
KG Posted September 18, 2007 Share Posted September 18, 2007 Wasn't going to post, but...thought long and hard. Age: Older Number of partners: High 30's Number of relationships: 1,college, 2 years, one in 20's, 2 years, married including dating / engagement, 30 years. No unwanted pregnancies, no diseases. No heartbreaks either. My numbers are "high" because I worked in a field where there were a lot of single transients always passing through...7 states, 9 major cities...it was FUN, FUN, FUN.... History: when i met Kim and we dated...alll bets were off... But it worked. She used to joke...All those women, all that time, I was right here! Link to comment
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