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well nothing i can do right now accept waiting and try a contact by calling her and sms her but a part from that nothing much cause i don't really know what she feels and especially now she has someone new but is hard for me to go with the flow but i'm willing to do it ?? things that make it even hard is how to talk with her how express my feeling in a different kind of way showing her i care and really do love her. i just hope this will twist the situation a bit and make her think slowly. not sure working or not cause she's very stubborn once she say no it will be no is just like she rejecting her self. but i don't really care about that what i care is that i do love her and i want to show her that from carring trying to make her think.

well girls, try the no contact for awhile about 1.5 weeks then start sms her at first this is what i said: are you preparing to go to work ??? then she reply no just finished eating. y do you ask ???? the i reply back nothing just asking. couple of days later i sms her back but no reply until one day i sms her telling her just sms you cause i've been thingking about you. then i call her that afternoon we have a short conversation it was alright she calm down now. i can hear it from her voice but i'm willing to fight but slowly ?? so any good tips for next step ????? i don't even know this is working or not ?? but i'm willing to take the risk cause i love her that's why i want to fight.

I've been thinking lately is been 2 weeks since we have contact. She already have a new bf can't seem to understand y ????? everyone say she seems happy now. I understand now that y she left me cause she feel I'm to fragile that I can't be independent and always need her. she doesn't like this she need someone that can be strong in her view. I don't know how but I'll try I still love her no matter what but is seems everything is againts my way don't know what to do ?????

Is hard i know to go through all these. heard all the stories"all the ex in her live never get back together with her". that's is y can i change that ???? cause it hurts me so much to see her with new bf. when she said no she meant it very well. you know sometimes when we think as a men in a mind game girls can have an advantages ussually when they have a new guy in their life we as men tend to be jaelous. but do you think it will be the same way if I have done the same thing in my situation ????? is just a game to lure her back in my trap. I guess

so you saying that is better not to send her anything ??????? just leave her alone. I can't understand when I leave her alone how can she miss me when she got this new guy in her live. I confused today is her birthday don't know what to do?????? I make my own birthday card for her and I really want to give it to her but after reading your post just make me unstable should I send it shouldn't I ??????????? well any more suggestion ????????????? what about the plan to go clubbing with other girls to show her I've move on. the last day we met is the worst she told me is over no chance at all but acctually i love her so i told her ok if it's over that's fine hope we still be friend and all the best for you, have fun then she said ok until now there's no news from her at all. so sad I love her so much. if she only knew that. even I make mistake in our relationship but that's only human nature never ever I have itention of cheating on her at all everyone think that I'm to nice and you can't be to nice but if i do the opposite way then the result would still be the same. Girl y can't you understand my position

well i understand now love is just a game. what do you think about my plan ???? sometime i just don't get it and the important thing is i'm not really sure why do we broke up but it happens already so it doesn't concern me. but one thing that concern me is that i want get her back. if i contact her she become cold and always be me who do the talking she just listen without saying a word the only thing that come out from her mouth is yes and no that's it. so it's difficult for me to cope with her esspecially now she got a new bf. she always listen to her friend never listen from her inner self this is also the trouble esspecially her friends is a drama queen if a have to say they all a B@#$@ you know what. i care so much for her because when i was with her she's a nice and caring gf but everytime she hangout with her friends she change that's y i hate her friend so much. but i love her so much care and can't express my feeling since she won't listen anymore. now i can only write letter to her and don't even dare to call her. here are my recent letter which i haven't post to her yet: Dear ****, It is very important for me to express to you how much you really mean to me. I wish I could do this in person while holding you in my arms and gazing into your eyes. But since we are physically separated by miles of emptiness, this expression must come in the form of letters such as this. From the first time I saw you, I was attracted to you. But boy! Never have I regretted a moment spent with you! But as I start being distracted with straightening my future, I forgot about the important person by my side, you. Were I able to travel back in time, I would go back to the moment I met you again, and start all over. This time I have an understanding on what needs to be done and what makes you happy. We are only human, and as human we can't do that. But the next best thing that can be done is let me do what I would do if I had that other option now. Let me love you as you should be loved and take care of you for the rest of your life. To see all the places we talked about, and to grow old together. To take care of you when you are sick or be there when you just need a shoulder. I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I know it is difficult for you, as it is for me, to be separated. Life seems to be full of trials of this type which test our inner strength, and more importantly, our devotion and love for one another. After all, it is said that "True Love" is boundless and immeasurable and overcomes all forms of adversity. In truth, if it is genuine, it will grow stronger with each assault upon its existence. Our love has been assaulted many times, and I am convinced that it is true because the longer I am away from you, the greater is my yearning to be with you again. I cherish any thought of you, prize any memory of you that rises from the depths of my mind, and live for the day when our physical separation will no longer be. Well, I guess I've said enough for the time being. ****, have a wonderful day and, hopefully, I'll see you again real soon. If you get a chance, write me and tell me your thoughts. Until I hear from you, take care of yourself. Always, **** Love Love is patient love is humble love is not selfish love is honest love doesn't keep people mistake love doesn't rejoice in inquity but rejoice in the truth love bears all thing love believe all thing love hope all thing love endures all thing love never fail what do you think advise anyone ???????????????????????????

Hi girls i just want to know your opinion about my ex and how should i handle her so i can get her back.so if you can help much much appreciated well just got dump 1 month ago after 7 month relationship only cause mostly misunderstanding and argument. but not all of it some of it also my mistake. my ex is very stubborn girl, selfish, very smart in covering her feelings. she's really hate me now and i think she's just ill feel right now so she doesn't want to be with me anymore. she just got a new bf about 1 week ago. well to tell u the truth i still care for her and miss her and i try all my best expressing this feeling (letters, sms, calling her and seeing her) but all this thing make her anoyed. she's been busy right now working, going to uni and when week end come she went clubbing with her friend. do you think she's really over about me ???? well try pleading and begging but all didn't work. so what the best plan girls ???? is been 1 week "no contact" now but is just seem it is not the thing for her since she really ignore me. i got a good plan acctualy, i will go clubbing next week with my friends and they all planning to match me with a girl this is to make her think that i've move on and maybe this plan will lure her back to me. so do you think is a good idea please response ADVISE NEEDED.

u know is really hurt my heart when i hear this news she got an new bf after just 1 month is like she's moving on. i heard from my friend she did this cause she doesn't want me bug her life anymore. until now i'm very patient with her and still love her dearly but don't know what to do?? her birthday coming up 10 march next week shoul i do anything ????? PLEASE ADVISE NEEDED GUYS. i feeling so sad everyday eventhough now i work doing things but still at night time i remmember her even in my dream always everyday i pray for her and for our relationship to work out but well sometimes you just don't get it why this is happening.

the problem right now is that she really hate me right now and seems that she doesn't want me back don't know why. according to the stories i know she never ever contact the ex again once she get over it then she start to move on don't even want to know about the past that is why i'm worried. acctually to tell you the truth i want to get back together and i will try my best to not contacting her but if she never contact me then what should i do to get her back ????????? ADVISE anyone

well is hard i know sometimes especcialy my ex gf is one of the stuborn girl I ever met but I love her dearly and really want to get back together with her. what if she doesn't call ????? how long this game have to be on ???? is just confusing don't know what to do ?????????????? just no contact a bit confused 8)

so you saying that she is the ball and i need to get her in the tennis court right in order to play. but the thing is i'm not really sure how to do that ?? i'm not that experience in doing that thing but if you can give me tips that will be helpfull for me beec. thanks buddy

MY SHORT STORIES "my old story was I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 month we were happy in those day alot of memories, we fight as well sometimes and last dec we went holiday together I was so happy until 25 january 2004 we broke up is been 1 month we had a big argument. my problem is that i don't listen to her, inmature guy, selfish and stubborn. for 1 month I make mistake all the time keep on calling her and pushing her. to tell you the truth she is one of a stubborn girl I've ever met in my life. well today I saw her talk with her she still said no chance we are getting together again. is ok so i decided and say to her ok maybe the time is not right but I still love you maybe I will look for you again in 2 or 3 year later cause no matter what I still love you. I told her aswell let's just be friends no heart felling. but in my heart she will always be there caused no matter what I LOVE HER" *1 day nothing to say still sad and think about her but keep it cool, busy and smilling.most important no contact and pray always for her to realize how I love her so much. *2 day nothing happen today a part just me alone going to church pray for us together hopefully there is a way so that we can be together again *3 day still the same nothing happen just ussual live but keep on praying about her MISS HER SO MUCH DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. *4 day nothing much start again with my life start working again and start doing exercise to keep fit. but still miss her so much can help it keep on praying. *5 day hear the most disappointed news she got new bf after 1 month breakups so stress but keep hangging there and pray *6 day got a part time job do the best i can not to think of her but so hard cause deep inside me still say i love her so much.

not a problem dude actually I'm happy to help anyone here who share the same problem. but to me some has a good news and happy situation. well in my situation is different abit more complicated but keep hanging there cause still want her back. so keep it cool and smile alot mate.

well sorry to hear what happens sometimes there are something that we can't controll within ourself and there is always a way to do it. but is your decision right now to make it right for you and your girlfriend. well for your situation just act normally, stay in thouch with her but remmember as a friend only don't bring up the past it will help. show the real you who she attracted with. then eventually it will spark again. but believe it or not in my situation I pray as well but it didn't help cause my pushiness, pulling her away from me but to tell you the truth no matter how hurt the girl is deep down in their heart there always a space for you. so only time will help her heal all of these and you will know what will happens as soon the right time come up. stay cool dude and enjoy life 8) a good word for you "Just believe in your self and do the best for your self then everyone will see how good you are"

from guys point of view most of guys like a girl who is passionate and understanding and some like girls who is playing hard to get. well if you going out on a date then is good at least you have the cance to be with you ex again but remmember don't show or talk about the past just talk nicely about you and your ex situation right know just go with the flow keep it nicely and maybe the spark will come hehehehhehehe. stay calm don't get excited just show how beautifull you are inside and outside then your ex maybe start to have that spark again. trust me see what's happen let us know with update ok. 8)