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Alright let me tell you something I learned from experience. 99 percent of the time a girl who you thinks you as a friend will always see you as a friend- even if you knew her for many years. See there has to be an instant attraction for her when she sees a guy. When she sees you as a friend than that image will never change for her. You may hold your breath for ever hoping that she'll have a change of heart, but that will do more harm than good- especially the fact that it's eating you inside. I've been a member for awhile at this forum and I always see tragic results when it comes to a friend confessing their feelings to the other. Usually it ends up having the friendship being very ackward. Similary, I've seen many people try to be "friends" after a relationship breakup but eventually end up not even doing that. See, the reason why it is ackward is that it's hard to change their "status" once they are classified by the opposite sex. My advice to you, don't worry about her and just be yourself. Move on because this probably would not work out. Your still young. Love comes unexpectedly so do not worry- you'll find that special person in due time.

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My dingy is very sensitive when I masturbate with my foreskin pulled back. My head is very sensitive and It hurts a lot when I do it, thereforeeee I cannot get off. Do any guys have problems with sensitivity?Is there a way I can dull this pain and be satisfied? Thanks!

My method to find out is this: Ask her what type of guys are she attracted to, personality and physical wise. If you are a guy who skinny and tall, and she says she is attracted to short and fat guys, then you are pretty much out of the picture. When asking this question, don't ask out of the blue because she may find it weird. Take her to a romantic movie and ask her afterwards, or watch a those many romantic reality tv show and then ask her. Good luck!

I dunno why people would judge you that easily because you guys are really close. Maybe people say this because of the fact that you guys look so compatible with one another... Well it's ok with whatever they say, as long your friendship doesn't change. That's the most important. I can relate to you because I was in somewhat the same situation but the difference was that she I fell for her : link removed

No matter how strongly you feel about your friend, don't just blurt out your emotions because it prolly will ruin the friendship. This can cause all sorts of trouble. Instead, take it slowly, and SHOW how you feel about her and show her how much better you are than the other guy. You can start by hanging out in groups and slowly and carefully hang out with less and less people. Eventually when you two hang out by yourselves, the more that you do together, the more that you will grow close together and the more natural it will be when you finally add the words to that feeling you have for her. *sigh* As someone said, the words should be the crowning glory - they should NEVER be the lightning bolt surprise out of the blue. Good luck dude! Thomas

Gosh...I'm afraid the truth is going to hurt. I cannot see myself asking her out now. I put too much effort into this damn friendship and may lose it over the night if i tell her my feelings. I KNOW she knows I like her. She has to be blind like a bat not to. By the fact that she said told me at the end of our conversation that she wasn't looking any relationship, was a indirect way of telling me that she's not ready for a relationship. I think your theory of "she could like you, but doesn't want a relationship right now", pretty much apply to how she's feeling for me. It's like a crush, attracted to a person but not seriously considering a relationship. As for the previous posters, I think it is best for me to take it slow....

Gosh.... What can she be hiding? I know for sure she isn't seeing anyone... 1) Well she never leans forward during conversations.... I like her too but I never lean over during conversations.. 2) She is sometimes not in her best behavoir and sometimes swear if she ticked off about something or is in a bad mood, but later she apologizes to me for her actions... 3) I have seen her put her hair behind her ears....but I think that's nothing because.....I dunno... What I can say is this... 1) The reason why I think she looks away is that she is obviously extremly shy. I've know this about her since the first time we met. I still don't know the look away thing is a good thing or a bad thing. 2) She dresses well when we meet for Thursday lunch and on dates. On other days where we've came accross unexpectely on campus, she dresses very casual. 3) Do hugs after dates mean anything? 4) I'm usually the one that calls her... Do the calls have to equal 50-50 in order to be attracted? Thanks for your help

I really don't know... I mean would she HAS to know I'm attracted to her in a sense. If I was her and someone asked me to go out to dinner and later that night see a concert performance.... I think the way we go out is too intimate to be an occasional "hangout" session with a friend. Also if she knows I'm attracted to her then why would she continue to say yes to the many times I asked her out? *sigh* I'm getting confused!

There is this girl I hang out very often because we go to college together. We've been best friends for over a year. Throughout this time we've gone through dinners, lunches, football games, symphonies, concerts, etc. I call her often and the other day I asked her what type of guys are she is attracted to- personality wise, and she pretty much described me. But later she ended that topic saying that she isn't looking for anyone right now, but is open to relationships in the future. Does that mean she does not put the effort in looking for guys but would welcome guys who asks for a relationship in the future? Also I have questions about body signals. We go out to lunch every week and have great conversations. During the times she is talking, I would stare into her eyes and she would sometimes look away, as if she was nervous or blushing. Why would she be like this after 1 year of a close friendship and how do I interprete this? Thanks for your advice.

My method to find out is this: Ask her what type of guys are she attracted to, personality and physical wise. If you are a guy who skinny and tall, and she says she is attracted to short and fat guys, then you are pretty much out of the picture. When asking this question, don't ask out of the blue because she may find it weird. Take her to a romantic movie and ask her afterwards, or watch a those many romantic reality tv show and then ask her. Good luck!

Its obvious that she isn't attracted to you. She's just a casual friend, not a best friend. That is obvious through the fact how slow the friendship is going. You are just passing through a "crush" stage, which I know you'll get over with time. Remember dude, relationship is a two-way street, not a one-way street. So it's not worth thinking trying anymore. I believe in time you'll find someone better than her because you are meant to be with some else.

I always had the same problem. My bestfriend is a girl and I kept on getting mixed signals whether she like me or not. The problem is that you are afraid you may make the friendship ackward if you tell her how you feel. But tell me something, isn't your relationship already ackward because of the fact that you are attracted to her? I tell you to step it up now and find out. Honestly I struggled for months trying to finding a way to see if she really likes me or not. I don't think complements are indicators of a girls attraction because I compliment girls all the time. My method to find out is this: Ask her what type of guys are she attracted to, personality and physical wise. If you are a guy who skinny and tall, and she says she is attracted to short and fat guys, then you are pretty much out of the picture. When asking this question, don't ask out of the blue because she may find it weird. Take her to a romantic movie and ask her afterwards, or watch a those many romantic reality tv show and then ask her. Good luck!