Now im only 15 but to me it sounds like he's doin exactly what your saying, which is goin AWOL because he doesnt want a conflict when he dumps u which i can't blame him. HOWEVER i would have broken up with him because i dont think ppl should play games with other ppl. They should just tell them whats wrong and life goes on Now honey I think your being rational and I don't think your afraid of commitment i think he is. You go find urself anotha man n ull be alright