IllestBboy

i need some advice.. i really want to make girls laugh..but unfortunately im extremly shy.. and i have no sense of humor.. i want to change that! can anyone give me some tips on how to have a great sense of humor?

hello.. well i have this friend and he keeps calling me names.. but in a jokingly matter... the reason? well i dont really stick up to my self cuz i dont know what to say..so i just stand there and laugh.. and i feel really vulnerable and EXTREMYL stupid.. can someone please help me?

hi.. im a 15 year old freshman and i have a few questions i have a really bad self esteem.. 1. i get really red when i do something stupid 2. i just dont have the balls to talk to any girls *sigh* i cant really carry a good convo.. and im really boring.. and i just need some help.. ive been so upset ive coped with these probelnms for too long and i need some help.. please.. i need your help

During one of my classes i was wearing this wristband.. I am not really that good at basketball but what of the people i usually talk to everyday came up and said "OOOH YOUR SOO GOOD AT BASKETBAL, YOUR SUCH A PIMP" and all this sarcastic bs. Then we were talking and he was like "Yeah dude your really easy to make fun of" and i asked "why?" and he said "just because". THIS is a probelm that bugs me because when iw as little peoplee would pick on me which tottally obliterated my self esteem.. can anyone help me? Btw.. im a guy

ok well im 15 and im a freshman at my high school.. i look at myself as.. someone who never takes risks.. and deep down i just need to... with that problem in my head its usually hard for me to make new friends.. i have terrible social skills and i need someone to help me.. can anyone give me tips?

yea ur right.. ill try it..

well im going to this party saturday and im already having second thoughts.. im afraid to meet the new people im going to see.. i get intimidated easily.. does anyone have any tips on how to over come this problem?

hmm..yea i have a group of guys who work out with me after school.. but yea..focusing ur strengths? hm.. i should try that

how do i get respect from people? my main problem... i can talk when i want to..but usually.. i dont want to talk.. i get scared easily.. people dont think badly of me.. at least i dont think so.. its jus i never talk to them.. just people in my classes and everything.. i need to make a name for myself.. im getting sick of not trying anything and goin through the usual routine DAY by DAY... i need someones help.. i need help getting respect from everyone..

oh i can relate.. i made many mistakes in my middle school days.. but now that im a freshman i realize how those mistkaes taught me somethings.. i guess making mistakes is alright.. but its a part of life

i jus realized im really insecure... i get paranoid over the STUPIDEST things.. like for example this girl doesnt talk to me for a day.. and i keeping thinking "oh boy she hates me" and i become really really quiet and EXTREMLY nervous... i dont know what to do.. how can i fix this?? i also wanna take risks at things.. but im afraid i will mess up..

anyone??

i have spanish with her.. jus recently i talked to her on msn and we had a nice littel conversation which was good.. this risk taking thing is really worth it

well i jus have these huge bursts of energy.. sorry i wasnt that specific like i can act like a little kid again and be a completel idiot..

ok well i have this tendency to go crazy.. i mean like.. i can act very calm and normal.. i can make the right moves sometimes.. but then at other times.. jus at selected times.. i jus GO CRAZY I CANT CONTROL MYSELF its weird? I need help on my self control.. because i dont think i have any.. does any one have any tips about self control?

ok well im a freshman at my high school and i have this girl who is in my class. Some of my friends are really good friends with her and occasionally we talk.. but now i just want her and me to be comfrotrable (excuse me for my spelling) with eachother.. jus like a little chit chat you know? Well she is kinda shy.. and i really dont know what the heck to bring up or how to go up to her.. i dont really have the balls to go up to people i dont really know and just start a conversation.. can anyone help me?

sorry.. i forgot to add something.. this problem only occurs when i start making friendships with girls

ive got a problem.. for the past 3 years of my life ive had constant struggles with keeping friendships.. Like my last one who was a girl who liked me and we always talked.. But after 3 weeks i heard she was really annoying from my friends.. and well i guess i got that feeling and i decide to not talk to her.. and after a couple of weeks she noticed and decided not to talk to me either.. mm a few weeks later i started talkin to her again but she really doesnt wanna talk to me or so it seems.. everyimte i start a convo shes always like ok.. mmheem.. well i know this is karma and i KNOW i deserve this but.. i really gotta stop doing this type of SERIOUSLY.. THIS HAS HAPPENED A LOT AND IM SICK OF IT.. I NEED SOME HELP PLZ.. THIS SITUATOIN KEEPS coming UP AND I CANT CONTROL IT SO PLZ@!! PLZ HELP ME!

vfunkera u are so rite! i think people who say your too cool think they're better then everyone.. its jus down rite arrogant.. i completely agree with ya.. but sumtimes it gets to me and i really wanna change this year.. 2003 has been harsh on me

yea im pretty shy.. is eye contact really important? is it necessary? Also.. how can you tell if someone's trying to be "too cool"?

hey um.. btw one more question.. is there any site here that could "decode" body language? i have poor body language looking at many things and i cannot make eye contact and i think the person that im talkin to finds it annoying and rude.. so anyone?

Hi how can you improve your confidence so it shows to the people around u? it makes me mad when someone says im trying to act too cool and im usually very depressed about this.. so can anyone help me? any helpful tips?

small talk... what do you mean?

hi i need some help i have a lot of friends... but whnever i meet new people nowadays i always give a terrible first impression. Sometimes i can be really outgoing, then sometimes i can be a complete idiot and not talk. I've noticed that for a while that my personality changes on some days. I t might sound strange but yes thats what happens on several occasions, i cannot control myself, i cannot control how to act and i think diffenretly sometimes. I need some advice on how to talk to people.. maybe ill find my source there..

ok well i was at my friends hosue with like 3 other people. I like this girl and she likes me back so we were cuddling while we were watchin a movie.. she leaned over my shoulder and i felt sum chemistry but i didnt know what to do next!! CAN ANY ONE HELP ME? I DONT KNOW HOW TO FLIRT OR ANYTHING!