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Dude just dont call her at all. If she wants u back she will call u,dont contact her at all. Trust me im going through the same thing and the last time i spoke with my ex was the night we broke up (she broke up with me) which was 2 weeks ago...feels like 2 months but u gotta do it.Women like strong men and if u keep calling it may make u look desperate. BREAK ALL CONTACT. i know its hard cuz u just want to hear her voice or make her laugh and try to patch things up,but if it was meant to be she will be back. I know exactly how u feel to a T, i want to call her everyday but i dont. Ive read a ton of forums and everyone says the same "BREAK ALL CONTACT" so i did. It sux man, i know, cuz i think the same way... I dont want anyone either but her too, she is perfect for me in many ways but just dont call anymore!!! good luck man and be strong

thanx all. i kinda thought the same thing..u even think i shouldn't tell her about the job and the accident stuff.I did promise her i would let her know about the job thing the night we broke up...and she wanted me to call her and let her know about the job, she wanted me to promise, cuz she said she still did care about me alot. this sux man i got so much *beep* goin on right now i dont know what to do replies please!!

I haven't talked with my ex-girlfriend in two weeks. I'm trying to do the whole break all contact with her thing and hope that she calls me wanting me back. However i was wondering if i left a message on her machine and she called back would that be ok? I know she is in class now(she goes to bowling green university) so i will get the machine. Cuz if she didn't want to talk she would not call me back...right? I kinda had some things to tell her anyway which were kinda important. About a new job and an accident i was in...she would want to know those things. ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!

If there is anyone with more advice it would be appreciated thanx....

I wouldn't hang with her at all dude.. She sounds like a b***h if u ask me. I agree with enadevoli u were her friend but she wasn't yours. I'd stay away if i were u!!! -Memories last forever, they simply never die, true friends stay together - they NEVER say good-bye

Hey everyone !!! I have been reading a ton of how to get my girl back topics and they all seem to be saying the same thing.... DONT CALL HER!!! I take it it's the best thing to do. I haven't contacted her for over a week now. Actually I haven't talked with her since the day she called me to break things off. I think im doing much better now, but it is hard to not call her at all... I think about calling her just to say hello or something, but i will stick to my guns and let her call me ( if she does of course ). See she said she would call me at the end the week when we last spoke which was the tuesday she broke things off.. That was last tuesday Sept 2nd... Kinda bummed me out cuz i was expecting her to call and she never did. I did not call her at all though. Does anyone think I should call her and if so how long should I wait.. It's been a week and 3 days now.If u want to know more about the whole story read my other post "why does my girl need a break?"

hey all, if there is anyone who can give me more advise please reply

hey thanx 4evernight it sounds like a mature and intelligent reply. she already said it she doesnt have anyone there, but however she is meeting new people and seeing guy friends she hasnt seen in a while. i am just going to stick to my guns and let her call me she did say she doesnt want to completely break it off... i guess thats were im confused. thanx again man!!

hi all, i had been dating this girl for a month and 3 weeks,and things were going awesome.i never felt this way about a girl in such a short amount of time. It all started when she came to work with me for the summer(with my company i work for). We became friends at first then we each started showing interest with one another.Finally she asked me out for a drink and of course i accepted. shortly after that i ended up asking her to be my g/f on july 10th. We had great times, saw each other all the time and talked everyday...most of all SHE CALLED ME!!! i never had to call she always called me. She now had to go back to college only 2 hrs away from me. i helped her move in and everything. I visited her the first weekend she was there before school had actually started. She calls me on sept 2 2003 saying she needs a break . I was crushed and confused i dont know why. she says i changed since shes been at school. that i dont trust her cuz i always ask q's on what she does everyday and with who. i only want to know whats going on in her life and who she hangs with. She likes to party alot and thats o.k. theres nothing wrong with that. she says sometimes she feels i look down on her if she does something like drinks to much and pukes or whatever... i dont at all!!! she just felt that she couldn't be herself around me anymore as if i was judging her or something. NOT TRUE!! I care about her so much and i could never think like that about her. she said she might have different feelings after a week or a month or 4 months who knows. I just dont understand how u could let 2 days of some things i said ruin almost 2 mos of the most wonderful times of my life . Please help i know it hasn't been long but it was special. We had so many weird yet cool things happen to us that looked like we were meant to be.. for instence: her birthday is march 20(first day of spring) mine is june 21st(first day of summer). The day i asked her out was july 10th the same day her brother is getting married in 2004, and i didnt even know, it was not planned at all. Our fist kiss was on the 4th of July.My middle intial is a C her first name begins with a C..Her middle intial is J my first name begins with a J. One time we went out to chinese with like 6 people and we somehow got the exact same fortune( see weird yet cool). I think shell come around cuz her family loves me and my family loves her, maybe she just needs a break to see what she is missing. i miss her so much.. i was suppose to see her this weekend too(not anymore). I hate this feeling of hurt it sucks so bad. theres so much more i could say but please reply.. THANKYOU