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THAT ALL SOUNDS REALLY GREAT. IT'S GOOD TO BREAK UP THE SAME OLD RUTINE. TRY HAVING SOMETHING LIKE I DID A COUPLE TIMES WITH MY WIFE. I HAD ABOUT 30 CANDLE'S LIT IN THE BATHROOM AND THE GARDEN TUB OR BATH TUB WHAT EVER YOU HAVE. AND CHAMPAIGN ON ICE OR WHAT EVER YOU TWO DRINK AND WELL YOU TAKE IT FROM THEIR!

My wife and i have a little baby girl and she is devorcing me. I've tryed to reason with her but she says it's over. I asked her if we could even be friends. She said she'll be civil because we have to deal with our daughter but as far as her and i doing anything together forget it. She said i pushed everything to fast and she wished she would of stopped our relationship before all this happened. I just don't know how to let go. She even cuts me down now to make me mad, but i try not to show her how bad she hurts me. Her mother pays almost all her bills and helps her in every way. But her mother wishes she would stay with me but my wife don't want to hear it. I feel shes spoiled but who am i to judge. Oh by the way i'm 43 and shes 37 years old. We were together for one year before all this mess happened. I feel so lonley with out her and her family. She also has a 4 year old from a previous relationship. Please somebody tell me how to handle this mess because i'm lost. Take care

My wife and I just had a baby girl Nov. 15th, but my wife left me shortly after she got pregnant because I selfishly got her pregnant and she trusted me to do the pull out method. She robbed me of going through the pregnancy and being in the delivery room. Now she only lets me come over to her house twice a week for about an hour at a time. She's being civil to me. She has 3 other kids from a previous marriage. Her mother helps her take care of her children or somebody from her church helps her, babysitting. She made clear to me that she is divorcing me in March and that I need to accept it. I tried to talk her into giving me a second chance but she said no. I'm hurt and I wish she would give me a chance, but every time I bring it up she gets mad so I just go see my child and don't talk about us anymore. I lied to her when I said I didn't want her back anymore. How can i get my family back? And be happy again?

I need advise my wife left me and is getting ready to have our baby this month nov. 2003. She left because i got her pregnant on purpose before she was ready. And now she lives somewhere else and will not talk to me. I communicate through her mother now. Ive tried to reason with her but she refuses to talk to me. I love her and have been hurting and stressed over it all. What should i do?

THANK YOU FOR YOUR REPLYS, I DO WANT HER BACK MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THE WORLD. AND I'M NOT GONNA STOP GOING TO CHURCH, I'M GONNA FIND ANOTHER CHURCH TO GO TO. BECAUSE I'M TIRED OF GOING HOME AFTER OUR CHURCH AND FEELING SAD BECAUSE SHE DOESNT CARE AND SHE DOESNT WANT ME THERE. AS FAR AS OUR CHILD TO BE I ALREADY TOLD HER THAT I'M GOING TO BE IN OUR CHILDS LIFE. BY THE WAY IT'S GOING TO BE A GIRL ACCORDING TO HER ULTRASOUND.

Hi everybody, how do i start? I'm 43 and my not yet ex-wife is 37 years old. I met her nov. 9th 2002 and we just fell head over heels for each other. Her 3 kids loved me to. Her mother is the minister of the church we belong to. We got engaged in febuary, and found out she was pregnant on march 22. She told me all the time she loved me, and that she wanted to marry by the end of this summer, and give me a child since i have no children. But she wanted to wait until her 3 year old was out of daycare. I didnt want to wait 2 years. So i got her pregnant on purpose. So she said lets get merried at the courthouse right away. And we did. She married me on march 28th and left me on march 31st. She said she only married me for the sake of what her cristian family and the people of the church would think. Then she told me she never wanted to see me again. But i see her every sunday at church and she treats me like i dont exist. Her mothers advise is to leave her alone but keep coming to church. Needless to say she broke my heart and i'm sad every sunday i see her and her stomach growing. She wont tell anything thats going on with the baby. What should i do? Stop going to the church and get out of her and her families life until the baby is born or what. Please give me your opinion.