lonelyguy

Thanx, its just the fact that she already knows I like her that makes me nervous lol

Alright i'll try talking to her next week when I see her, hopefully all goes well

So how do you take notice without really looking?

So then I should just try talking to her at school and try to read her body language and go from there?

So is it a good thing that im in her subconscious? lol

I dont get it why would she look so many times to see if i am looking at her when she already knows I like her. If she didn't like me, wouldn't she know that it would make me think she likes me?

Oh wait nvm i think i know what you mean now lol. No i dont but i should. she never talks to me though, its like im not even there but from far away she stares at me (i dunno if its cuz she knows i like her and she wants to see how much i look at her or if she likes me)

whats IRL?

Ive tried that before and plus she said she only IMs people who IM her

well she says haha alot and stuff and sometimes makes jokes but im the one who IMs her cuz she swears that she only goes online to see who wants to talk to her??

How do you know if a girl who knows you like her talks to you online just because she is being nice but she really doesn't like you? Like how can you distinguish if she is just talking to you and being nice because she feels bad for you and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings?

im pretty sure she aint the nervous type so prolly the haha but not the serious kind of haha if that makes sense

actually i didnt tell her, she just knows and sometimes when i do something like sit near her (not on purpose by the way) she laughs

If someone finds it amusing or funny that you like them, does it automatically mean they dont really care or like you back?

Ok this has been going on for a while now and i have no idea what to do. I have been talking to this girl online for a while now. We see each other everyday at school but we never talk to each other. The problem is that every time are paths cross she purposely acts like im not there and looks in the opposite direction everytime. Ive asked her about why she doesn't talk to me and she says that she usually doesn't start converstations with people but she'll try (I always see her starting conversations with people all the time but never with me). Well anyways things haven't changed since she said that and she says she doesn't know why we dont talk and also says she has nothing against me and wouldnt mind talking. I am very very sure that she isn't a shy person cuz she is always so energetic and talking to people all the time so I dont understand why she talks to everyone but me. Whats going on here?

Ok this is a pretty short question. I've been reading stuff online about girls wanting a "challenge" when it comes to relationships or else it gets boring and dies out. What exactly would be considered a challenge anyways?

Dont worry your not the only one. Its the same way for me too except its the other way around of course. I guess we just keep getting unlucky O well someday after trying so much mayb we'll find somone thats perfect for us one day

Sorry didnt know where to put this topic so I just put it here. Alright so I like this girl right? well we talk alot on aim but we never have talked at school (im going to start to though). The problem is she just broke up with her first boyfriend a few weeks ago and I still think that its bothering her. Theres like nothing I can really do because she really doesn't want to talk about it. When we talk online though we always have alot to say and she laughs and jokes sometimes. It seems like she likes talking to me but I dunno and plus she already knows I like her (I never said i do, but im pretty sure she knows) I want to get to know her more and stuff and some day ask her out but its kinda hard with this going on. I wanna comfort her and stuff but I know I cant since we dont know each other very well, so I guess i just have to wait for to get over him (which I know takes time). Do I have a chance with her? What should I do? Just wait till she gets over him? How would I know she's ready to date again?

woah you lost me on the second paragraph

Ok this has been going on for quite a while now and its starting to drive me nuts. I really don't understand any of this or what is even going on. So ive been talking to this girl who goes to my school for quite a while online now right? Well we talk and stuff but yea im always the one who IMs her first (yea I know thats not a good thing lol). The thing is when she is about to leave she always says that she'll talk to me later but she never does!!! Also when we are at school she like ignores me and pretends I dont exist but sometimes she'll look to see if im looking at her especially when shes with her best friend but I don't think it is because she likes me. What is going on here? I am pretty sure she isn't a shy person. I like want to talk to her at school but the way she acts with me at school isn't exactly motivating

I dunno really because if I were him I don't think I would really wanna go anymore after being blown off like that. Well anyways I would think that you would have to be the one to approach him because by the looks of it he isn't going to approach you anymore. Perhaps you could trying going up to him and saying sorry about earlier when he asked you to homecoming because you were in a rush to get to class and weren't really thinking about what was going on? good luck

im pretty sure she isnt shy thats why i just dont get it

woah ok im really lost here. ive been talking to this girl online for like a while now and the thing is we go to the same school. the problem is we go to the same school and we never talk there and i mean NEVER! I just dont get it. At school when im glancing at her she doesn't glance at me and when im not glancing at her shes glancing at me. So like when I walk by her in the hallways its like im not even there. Im just so lost i dont get any of this. Is she just messing with my mind or does she like me or what?

Yea thats one reason why I dont like online stuff because usually went I talk to a girl online they dont say much and are pretty brief but when I talk to them in person they seem to talk alot more. I think you should definitely go for it. I mean so what if she says no? its ok there are tons of girls out there. Love is always something to take a chance at because you never know if it could have worked out or not if you don't do anything about it. Good luck!

woah im in the exact same situation as you except im a junior. Im betting she has some kind of interest in you. I think you should definitely act upon it. Just go up to her and say hi and mayb talk about something brief since you dont have any classes with her you dont have much time to talk to her at school, unless its after or before school obviously. Dunno if that helped, im stuck in the same situation myself but I hope that helped a lil bit.