John Blaze
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Well everyone my heart hurts no more for the person that I loved. I received a e-mail today stating that she wants to stop all commutations from me and that we must move on because she found a new man that she wants to get to know the funny part is that she said she never seen him face to face but she feels he her soul mate. After reading that I no longer feel any pain for loosing the relationship but what I do feel is that she is a very lost person and I'm over her now thanks for all the support that I got from every one the past three months.
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I'm sorry to hear that you and your lady broke up I was in the same situation in June living with my girl while broken up it is very hard at the end I had enough and moved out. At first she going to play head games with you like acting like everything is ok on moment then the next treating you like dirt next will come the staying gone till she wants to come home even if she knows it late she stay later just to make you wonder what's going on then she start treating you like a stranger in the house at the end you say to yourself it better just to leave then be unhappy in your own home
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First of all I want to say that this forum has been such a big help. The question I have is that my ex wants to meet me for dinner tonight for the first time in over a month of not seeing her she sent a e-mail stating if we was on for later and that she can't wait to see me my question is I want some does and don'ts what to bring up in conversation and what not to bring up thanks for your help.
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should I let go or be friends
John Blaze replied to John Blaze's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
You are so right the fourm has hepled me out so much I think thats what got me threw this. Sometimes i'm wanting to see her just to find out what really went wrong and to find out what I did to make her turn her back on me moreless to learn from past mistakes. -
Me and my girlfriend broke up a few months ago since then I've moved out and kept in touch threw a few phone calls and few e-mails just giving her space. The problem is that I sat down and thought it seems to me that since the break up I've made the only effort to keep in touch and suggest things like dinner, movies and she accepts but is it more for pity or is it because she wants to see me even as friends I had a B-day a few weeks ago I did not even get a call from her to say happy b-day but a e-mail card how low but when I did call her two days later I'm so silly I ask her out for dinner. I'm over the break up but deep down you always feel that things could may be work out if you start over as friends but like I said I'm the only one leaning out my hand I'll send he cards e-mail out the clear blue to just say hi have a good day and all I get back is thanks sent via e-mail what should I do?
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Did you not read the advice that I gave you beleave me today is Wednesday go from today till Monday with out calling or nothing now if SHE CALLS YOU between now keep the conversation under 2 min and enjoy the next six days if it was to be she come around.
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I just got out of a relationship this past may after being together for two years and living together for one year believe me its hard the first few weeks because you want to make everything the way it was. I read a lot of post and the best thing to do is give HER SPACE I can not stress to you it hard. That what she needs and take it from me she will date, hang out 10 times more then she use to do just to keep you off her mind I suggest you do the same thing because when I gave her space and went out with friend and dates it makes it that much better you will find yourself in a few weeks not thinking about her too much and you be surprise too see her attitude change towards you also if it was meet to be she come around as friends first then from that point you try to rebuild what you had.
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I have tried applogizing to her I done it all flowers etc. But the good thing is that we have been able to talk sense I moved out do you think that she is now let herself forgive me a little with the recent request to see me?
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I do want her back and I'm willing to work things out under different roofs honest I think it will be better. As for the pain she told me things that her ex use to say and do to be little her and we got in to a agument and I said that why your ex use to beat your A@@.
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Me and my girlfriend broke up in May after being together for two years and living together. I've moved two weeks ago and got my own place I noticed since I moved out that she been more friendly and we are able to talk to one another just yesterday she invited me over for dinner and a movie which was a big surprise for me and I enjoyed the time and just this past Sunday we spent the day together I asked her why the invite and she said that she wanted to see me after just seeing me since Sunday. When I was at her house I tried to rub her hand show some affection towards her and she said no not yet the pain is still their. Do I take this as her SLOWLY trying to work things out or me filling in time for her because she is bored It so hard to understand woman because before I moved out we did not have two words to say to each other. what should I do?
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I just wanted to give a update on my situation for those that read my post I was living with my girlfriend when we broke up in May but I had till Sept to get my own place well I moved out two weeks ago got my own Apt now the odd thing is that now that I moved out we been able to talk to one another and MAYBE we will work things out. The way I feel now is when we was going threw the break up I saw a side of her that make me think that maybe I should not try and work things out now I'm still thinking very hard about that.
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I have a question Me and my girlfriend broke up a month ago and we still live in the same house together at least for another two months my question is I want to give her time and space to work things out in her mind and work threw her feelings that she is having. I been hiding out in my room not coming out to talk to her and keeping the peace in the house I avoided doing anything that involves us like sitting down eating together etc. I'm I doing the right thing buy acting like a ghost in the house?
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I have apologue a hundred times the biggest problem is I know she wants to work it out but she being bull headed. And the issue we had was that I kept accusing her of messing with this guy that I truly know nothing ever happen but I would bring it up every time be fight as a weapon to throw at her.
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You are so right last week she said "I will not take you back I will not be weak" When she said that I back off and let her have her space
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I been on this web page a lot the past two weeks reading every possible situation that come accross trying to get help some good advice some not so good. I left a post Friday telling my story a quick sum up I been with this girl for two years and we broke up last month we live together and she said I need to move out buy first of Sept. we broke because I kept bring up a issue that came up in our relationships months ago to be honest it was not that big of a deal. the problem is I heard her in her room last night crying late last night my question is why do woman put their self threw that pain to not open up and give it a chance when deep down they are so hurt is it pride or what for the past five days I've kept the peace and let her deal with it with out pressure from me.