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  1. I was sitting in my english class one day not too long ago and we were given an assignment to write a poem. The poem was supposed to be a love poem and I was completely drawing a blank. The girl that i have liked for a while happens to be in that class too so I just looked at her for a few seconds. I could think of the things below and much much more in just that little bit of time. Please read it and tell me what you think. Also tell me what you think I should do with it. Should I give it to her or read it to her? She already knows I like her and senior year is almost over. Is this a way I could ask her out or too strong? I also had one other quick question. I want to get her a gift before the end of the year as a kind of goodbye but not so she will remember me forever. I was thinking of a necklace with a heart on the end engraved or something like that??? Last year for christmas I got her her favorite childhood book for a present and she said it was the most thoughtful gift she has ever gotten from a guy. Is there anyway to beat that??? help me with this please. Alright here goes with the poem: As my head arose and turned you way, I wondered if it was the day. Is this an angel from above, Or maybe just my one true love. Not much words there are to say, On the beach of which we lay. Whichever waves we may be listening, I'm stuck on your face that is glistening. No amount of world tours, Would help find a beauty such as yours. The beautiful sunset that catches your eye, Doesn't matter to me and I now know why. The harmonious song of many a great bird, Are all blocked out for it's only you I've heard. Your voice is so kind and true, That it forces me to only love you. For my true love of which I wait, She has a heart that is so great. Made of gold and always there, Showing me that she will always care. Beautiful, caring, sweet, and kind, I know how hard you were to find. Please let me have you and your pure heart, And know that we will never be apart. So what do you think about the poem and the other stuff???
  2. Well i think i am having a graduation party either the day of graduation or the day after and if i can get her to go, it will be at a hotel on the beach, then i think i will try it there. otherwise i may just do it at graduation because we will be sitting right next to each other. Maybe i will do it beforehand also im not sure yet. But i like the idea of the locket
  3. just start doin easy stuff eveyr night while sitting around. do situps, crunches, pushups, maybe some certain kinds of stretches, look online for stomach workouts and stuff. the internet is easy to find anything bud just look for it.
  4. I was sitting in my english class one day not too long ago and we were given an assignment to write a poem. The poem was supposed to be a love poem and I was completely drawing a blank. The girl that i have liked for a while happens to be in that class too so I just looked at her for a few seconds. I could think of the things below and much much more in just that little bit of time. Please read it and tell me what you think. Also tell me what you think I should do with it. Should I give it to her or read it to her? She already knows I like her and senior year is almost over. Is this a way I could ask her out or too strong? I also had one other quick question. I want to get her a gift before the end of the year as a kind of goodbye but not so she will remember me forever. I was thinking of a necklace with a heart on the end engraved or something like that??? Last year for christmas I got her her favorite childhood book for a present and she said it was the most thoughtful gift she has ever gotten from a guy. Is there anyway to beat that??? help me with this please. Alright here goes with the poem: As my head arose and turned you way, I wondered if it was the day. Is this an angel from above, Or maybe just my one true love. Not much words there are to say, On the beach of which we lay. Whichever waves we may be listening, I'm stuck on your face that is glistening. No amount of world tours, Would help find a beauty such as yours. The beautiful sunset that catches your eye, Doesn't matter to me and I now know why. The harmonious song of many a great bird, Are all blocked out for it's only you I've heard. Your voice is so kind and true, That it forces me to only love you. For my true love of which I wait, She has a heart that is so great. Made of gold and always there, Showing me that she will always care. Beautiful, caring, sweet, and kind, I know how hard you were to find. Please let me have you and your pure heart, And know that we will never be apart. So what do you think about the poem and the other stuff???
  5. Well if you two are good friends then it could just mean that he is feeling lonely sometimes and just wants a girlfriend or girl to hang out with more. I know I used to say I needed a girlfriend all the time to many different girls and guys. If you two arent really friends or maybe just kind of and he keeps telling you then im guessing (just guessing) that he likes you and that could even be the case if you were friends. But if he is flirty with you and continually says it then i would say he does. If he doesnt like you then maybe just help him out with the situation if you can. Hope i could help even if i didnt.
  6. I was sitting in my english class one day not too long ago and we were given an assignment to write a poem. The poem was supposed to be a love poem and I was completely drawing a blank. The girl that i have liked for a while happens to be in that class too so I just looked at her for a few seconds. I could think of the things below and much much more in just that little bit of time. Please read it and tell me what you think. Also tell me what you think I should do with it. Should I give it to her or read it to her? She already knows I like her and senior year is almost over. Is this a way I could ask her out or too strong? I also had one other quick question. I want to get her a gift before the end of the year as a kind of goodbye but not. Last year for christmas I got her her favorite childhood book for a present and she said it was the most thoughtful gift she has ever gotten from a guy. Is there anyway to beat that??? help me with this please. Alright here goes with the poem: As my head arose and turned you way, I wondered if it was the day. Is this an angel from above, Or maybe just my one true love. Not much words there are to say, On the beach of which we lay. Whichever waves we may be listening, I'm stuck on your face that is glistening. No amount of world tours, Would help find a beauty such as yours. The beautiful sunset that catches your eye, Doesn't matter to me and I now know why. The harmonious song of many a great bird, Are all blocked out for it's only you I've heard. Your voice is so kind and true, That it forces me to only love you. For my true love of which I wait, She has a heart that is so great. Made of gold and always there, Showing me that she will always care. Beautiful, caring, sweet, and kind, I know how hard you were to find. Please let me have you and your pure heart, And know that we will never be apart. So what do you think about the poem and the other stuff???
  7. Here is the story, it is somewhat long but bear with me... There is this girl. When I was in class the first day of my junior year in high school I was sitting there. All of a sudden she walked in and I dont know why or how but i just had the feeling to look up and at her. Once I did I havent been able to get my eyes off her. I went through a year of trying to show her how much i liked her. I flirted with her a lot. I got her gifts. A lot of people knew that I liked her without even me telling them. This girl is the girl of my dreams. She isnt the hottest girl that all the guys have their jaws dropped to. She is beautiful like the fairytale asian princess. She is one of the nicest girls I have ever met. She is always there for you no matter what or who you are. She always goes out of her way to make you smile. For me this isnt a hard task. Whenever i am around her i just smile, i dont know why but she always makes me smile. After a while I realized that there was no way she was going to realize it herself. This is when i knew i had to ask her and was going to ask her to prom. I ended up chickening out and not going at all. So when I went off to summer (by this time we had become pretty good friends) I had a change happen. I came back my senior year and now i am much more open and talking to everyone. Last year i was very reserved, i talked to people but only really when talked to. So now im happier. So now in my senior year since i had my "revelation", I decided that i was going to ask her out. All my friends were telling me to do it and the day or two before i was going to ask her my stupid friend decided to tell her. Now I didnt crawl into my "hole" like i would have last year. It actually had benefits. The first 2 weeks of school we talked maybe two or three times. When she started talking to me everyday (going out of her way to), I started thinking maybe she liked me too. Then she started hugging me a lot and I started gaining confidence and started getting much more flirty (touchy and compliments about her, telling her she is beautiful). I did ask her to homecoming but I was 3 hours too late. So here is my dilemma I only have about 2 months left in high school and I would regret it for a long time if i dont do something. She seems like she is showing interest in me but it is hard to tell (she is very very innocent, never had a boyfriend, and may not be meaning to). Since i didnt go to homecoming with her i was thinking of asking her out for real, because she got asked to prom before i could ask her, and telling her how i really feel about her. I need advice on if i should do this or not. Please also give me input on what i should say and if i should just say what i said above kind of. I wanted to talk to her about prom and tell her to save me a dance or 5 or something like that and then maybe while we were dancing at prom talk to her there. Give me any input possible on this situation. Please help me out. thanks!!!
  8. Here is the story, it is somewhat long but bear with me... There is this girl. When I was in class the first day of my junior year in high school I was sitting there. All of a sudden she walked in and I dont know why or how but i just had the feeling to look up and at her. Once I did I havent been able to get my eyes off her. I went through a year of trying to show her how much i liked her. I flirted with her a lot. I got her gifts. A lot of people knew that I liked her without even me telling them. After a while I realized that there was no way she was going to realize it herself. This is when i knew i had to ask her and was going to ask her to prom. I ended up chickening out and not going at all. So when I went off to summer (by this time we had become pretty good friends) I had a change happen. I came back my senior year and now i am much more open and talking to everyone. Last year i was very reserved, i talked to people but only really when talked to. So now im happier. This girl is the girl of my dreams. She isnt the hottest girl that all the guys have their jaws dropped to. She is beautiful like the fairytale asian princess. She is one of the nicest girls I have ever met. She is always there for you no matter what or who you are. She always goes out of her way to make you smile. For me this isnt a hard task. Whenever i am around her i just smile, i dont know why but she always makes me smile. So now in my senior year since i had my "revelation", I decided that i was going to ask her out. All my friends were telling me to do it and the day or two before i was going to ask her my stupid friend decided to tell her. Now you would think I would be very angry after that but i suprisingly wasnt. And i didnt crawl into my "hole" like i would have last year. It actually had benefits. The first 2 weeks of school we talked maybe two or three times. After he told her we talked every day and hugged every other probably. When she started talking to me everyday (going out of her way to), I started thinking maybe she liked me too. Then she started hugging me a lot and i started gaining confidence and started getting much more flirty (touchy and compliments about her, telling her she is beautiful). And now it is christmas break and this is still going on and i still havent done it. She said that she didnt really want a boyfriend but she did want a date to homecoming back when it happened. So I was walking with her and we were talking. I thought to myself, i am walking here next to her and we are alone, why am i not asking her and i did. But i was 3 hours late. And she said she didnt really want a date to homecoming anyway(she was going with a friend). So here is my dilemma I only have half of a year left in high school and I would regret it for a long time if i dont do it. She seems like she is showing interest in me but it is hard to tell (she is very very innocent, never had a boyfriend, and may not be meaning to). Since i didnt go to homecoming with her i was thinking of asking her out for real or maybe to prom and telling her how i really feel about her. I need advice on if i should do this or not. Please also give me input on what i should say and if i should just say what i said above kind of. (Is this good? I know its early but I dont wanna miss out on the night of my life with the girl of my dreams...) Please help me out. thanks!!!
  9. Here is the story, it is somewhat long but bear with me... There is this girl. When I was in class the first day of my junior year in high school i was sitting there. All of a sudden she walked in and I dont know why or how but i just had the feeling to look up and at her. Once I did I havent been able to get them off. I went through a year of trying to show her how much i liked her. I flirted with her a lot. I got her gifts. A lot of people knew that I liked her without even me telling them. After a while I realized that there was no way she was going to realize it herself. This is when i knew i had to ask her and was going to ask her to prom. I ended up chickening out and not going at all. So when I went off to summer (by this time we had become pretty good friends) I had a change happen. I came back my senior year and now i am much more open and talking to everyone. Last year i was very reserved, i talked to people but only really when talked to. So now im happier. This girl is the girl of my dreams. She isnt the hottest girl that all the guys have their jaws dropped to. She is beautiful like the fairytale asian princess. She is one of the nicest girls I have ever met. She always is there for you no matter what or who you are. She always goes out of her way to make you smile. For me this isnt a hard task. Whenever i am around her i just smile, i dont know why but she always makes me smile. So now in my senior year since i had my "revelation", I decided that i was going to ask her out. All my friends were telling me to do it and the day or two before i was going to ask her my stupid friend decided to tell her. Now you would think I would be very angry after that but i suprisingly wasnt. And i didnt crawl into my "hole" like i would have last year. It actually had benefits. The first 2 weeks of school we talked maybe two or three times. After he told her we talked every day and hugged every other probably. When she started talking to me everyday (going out of her way to), I started thinking maybe she liked me too. Then she started hugging me a lot and i started gaining confidence and started getting much more flirty (touchy and compliments about her, telling her she is beautiful). And now it has been another 2 months of doing this. She had said that she didnt really want a boyfriend but she did want a date to homecomin. So last week I was walking with her and we were talking. I thought to myself, i am walking here next to her and we are alone, why am i not asking her and i did. But i was 3 hours late. Here is my dilemma. She seems like she is showing interest in me but it is hard to tell (she is very very innocent, never had a boyfriend, and may not be meaning to). Since i cant go to homecoming with her i was thinking of asking her out for real and telling her how i really feel about her. I need advice on if i should do this or not. Please also give me input on what i should say and if i should just say what i said above kind of. Please help me out. thanks Also i think i may be in love if you go by definition. Yes i may be young but if you really think about it i very well could be. I just have such a desire to hold her close to me and never let her go. I think she is the perfect girl for me and i dont know if i will ever find another like her.
  10. Here is the story, it is somewhat long but bear with me... There is this girl. When I was in class the first day of my junior year in high school i was sitting there. All of a sudden she walked in and I dont know why or how but i just had the feeling to look up and at her. Once I did I havent been able to get them off. I went through a year of trying to show her how much i liked her. I flirted with her a lot. I got her gifts. A lot of people knew that I liked her without even me telling them. After a while I realized that there was no way she was going to realize it herself. This is when i knew i had to ask her and was going to ask her to prom. I ended up chickening out and not going at all. So when I went off to summer (by this time we had become pretty good friends) I had a change happen. I came back my senior year and now i am much more open and talking to everyone. Last year i was very reserved, i talked to people but only really when talked to. So now im happier. This girl is the girl of my dreams. She isnt the hottest girl that all the guys have their jaws dropped to. She is beautiful like the fairytale asian princess. She is one of the nicest girls I have ever met. She always is there for you no matter what or who you are. She always goes out of her way to make you smile. For me this isnt a hard task. Whenever i am around her i just smile, i dont know why but she always makes me smile. So now in my senior year since i had my "revelation", I decided that i was going to ask her out. All my friends were telling me to do it and the day or two before i was going to ask her my stupid friend decided to tell her. Now you would think I would be very angry after that but i suprisingly wasnt. And i didnt crawl into my "hole" like i would have last year. It actually had benefits. The first 2 weeks of school we talked maybe two or three times. After he told her we talked every day and hugged every other probably. When she started talking to me everyday (going out of her way to), I started thinking maybe she liked me too. Then she started hugging me a lot and i started gaining confidence and started getting much more flirty (touchy and compliments about her, telling her she is beautiful). And now it has been another 2 months of doing this. She had said that she didnt really want a boyfriend but she did want a date to homecomin. So last week I was walking with her and we were talking. I thought to myself, i am walking here next to her and we are alone, why am i not asking her and i did. But i was 3 hours late. Here is my dilemma. She seems like she is showing interest in me but it is hard to tell (she is very very innocent, never had a boyfriend, and may not be meaning to). Since i cant go to homecoming with her i was thinking of asking her out for real and telling her how i really feel about her. I need advice on if i should do this or not. Please also give me input on what i should say and if i should just say what i said above kind of. Please help me out. thanks
  11. well me and her are ok friends so if i say hey wanna do something over the summer she may just think that im asking her as a friend... ive only asked 1 person out before and that turned out to be a disaster... i think that is why i have such a big fear... i am gonna try and do it... its just extremely hard to get her alone
  12. Tomorrow is the last day of school and i really want to ask this girl out... i dont think i can do it and i need as much advice as possible quick... i am not good at going up to a girl and asking... we are pretty good friends, not great but pretty good... i really need to do this quick... the actual last day is on tuesday but i dont know if i will see her then... i didnt get the courage to ask her to prom but i was very close... i think she knows i like her now and we have been talking a lot more lately... one day when i was thinking of calling her to ask her to study... all of a sudden she called me and i didnt give her my number for math help... even though she has a lot of friends that are good at math... i dont know about this.. should i ask her before school ends or should i just call her up during the summer and say hey wanna go to a movie or something... help me quick please
  13. that is a good question... it would be good to get a lot of girls opinions... i am the same as monkey
  14. the one difference between your situation and my friend is... i tell her who i like... i actually used to like this friend in the beginning but i became much more of a good friend with them... i confide all or at least most of my secrets with her and she doesnt tell... the thing is that if he doesnt tell you this it may be because it is you... the other thing is that if he does like you but is telling you all his secrets he may be thinking of you as just a friend as time goes on like what happened to me... so in my opinion you are either heading towards going out or becoming very good friends... if u want it to start heading towards going out then start to send signs to him... one huge sign towards guys is lightly touching him or something...
  15. i have a good friend thats a girl... although its not as much as yours... we hang out a lot and we are really good friends... we always say i love u back and forth... it started at the beginning of this school year when we had spanish together we would make gestures accross the class... i'm not pursuing it any because i like her as a friend and a really good one too... also i have my eye on someone else... i dont know if this is how he is looking at it towards you or not... but sometimes i get close to her too and am standing next to her and talking to her... i have one question... does he tell you things he wouldnt tell other people, such as secrets he has??? that could be a definite hint that he wants to be your friend more i think
  16. ben37d

    Prom

    Hey I am thinking of asking this girl to prom... i am running out of time, my last possible day would probably be monday... i am pretty shy and i have trouble asking her... i came very close today but her friends walked up...everyone is telling me to just do it and what ever but i have a problem doing it face to face.. my question is mainly for girls here... would it be weird to write a note... and if so what kind of note should it be... like a sweet little one or a serious but not too serious one... please help me out... if i should just go up instead also tell me that.. any input please
  17. Hey im 16 and i have a situation kind of like this. I have my friends, and around them i will act how i normally would. I even have this great friend who's a girl, that i like. I act normal around her too. But there is this one girl. For some reason when i am around her i never act like i normally would. its almost like i want to be better for her. I know what ur gonna say about being yourself but its so hard to open up and do that. If i change then thats not the real me... I will think of something to say that i would normally but for some reason i wont. I say that i am reserved. I dont do the things i would do around some people. Its starting to get a little easier but its still not the same as around others. It sucks too
  18. Ask her what one of her favorite books are or something. Then be like what was that about. Do this with things she is interested in. things like that.
  19. I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE HELP!!!!! I like this girl. She is one of the nicest people i know. Also she is so beautiful, some girls wear makeup and things to make them look pretty... she doesnt... she is naturally beautiful almost like one of those fictional princess types... ok im going on. We have become pretty good friends. We havent really hung out outside of school or anything yet but thats what im trying to do know. She is very popular, mainly because she is nice to everyone. My problem is that she is always busy and doing things with her friends. its hard to get her alone. Im trying to think of some way to get her attention that i like her, not just coming out with it. I dont think she has ever had a boyfriend or even know if she wants one. If she doesnt i would just like to become really good friends with her. I did try to show that i like her in getting her a christmas present. A short story: One day we were sitting in a class(im 16, 11th grade) and she started telling me a story. It was her favorite book when she was young. When christmas came around i wanted to get her something. So i thought this would be a great idea. She loved this gift, she even said it was her favorite christmas gift. I think it was a good hint towards me liking her??? Oh yeah! Everytime I see her we smile at each other. When I dont smile she notices it and tries to get me to smile. I'm pretty sure this is just her niceness but i dont know. Also i have joined many clubs that we are both in now. We have a couple classes together. A little about my self real quick... Im 16, in 11th grade, a nice guy(or so im told A LOT), extremely likeable, short, not very attractive, pretty smart(not a geek or anything), and thats about it. Oh also im kind of shy, not talking but i tend to hold things back that i think to do in my head but end up not doing. I need some help on how to get her attention... do things out of school... things to talk about... etc. etc. etc. Also summer is approaching very soon and i want to become better friends before then so we hang out this summer... i dont think i could go 2 or 3 months without seeing her. HELP ME PLEASE!!!
  20. I got the girl i like, who is also a good friend. her favorite childhood book. she loved it. my advice is figure out something she absolutely loves now or loved when she was young, it will be a big hit. and just do it out of nowhere just to show her you love her.
  21. Hi my name is Ben. I am having trouble in school. I am a junior in high school and have never had a date. Not even anywhere near it. I have missed the first two years of high school due to an illness and have no friends really. I mean there is the sort of friends right now but no one to hang with, but I eat lunch by myself usually in a teachers class. I cant really relate to anyone because i dont know whats cool and Im definitely not cool. I am not attractive at all, like I have a hair problem (missing in some places). Im not a geek or anything because I see them and Im not like that. I hear all the time, "Oh your such a nice guy." I realize I need to find a group of friends but its hard. I am very smart and incredibly nice from what I hear. I also hear Im cool, but whats wrong. I have been turned down once before from a girl that was a very good friend of mine, we never talked again!!! I have a girl I like right now but I dont know what to do. She is popular and involved in a lot of school things. I want to join some too but I dont want to seem too obvious. Everytime Im around her I always have a smile on my face, I dont know how it happens but I almost always do. PLEASE HELP ME!!! I need any help I can get on anything. That means being cool, girl advice, help getting friends, ANYTHING!!!
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