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im taking a step back with the situation i am in right now. i think she means more to me than i mean to her so yeah its not gonna happen like that

it does if u put intentions of wanting a relationship out there. plus im just about 19 (like it makes a difference) but the thing is i am much more mature for my age ppl tell me and i did say in first post that im not generalizing all females

yeah thats true, idk i guess i want a relationship rather then dating. i may give this last girl another chance, but im definatly gonna keep 'more distance' this time around and not be so widely available

i said before, i didnt mean litterally 'giving' like gifts or stuff. i did take one girl to a basketball game but i meant like i just have a lot of to offer as a person

not only that ive talked to 2 ppl about my situations more indepth (it would take hours to post here) and they agree that i deserve more and that im better off without them.

i didnt mean give the world literally. i just there for them. prolly cuz my schedule is soo free id like to spend more time with them idk it might be that. im here and comforting them and it seems like i mean a lot to them, but nopers

so ive been in 2 'more-than-friends' relationships and ive given out the world and it doesnt mean anything. not to generalize against women as an entire group. but maybe ive just had some beginners bad-luck cuz the situations ive been in i know i deserve a lot more and have the person care for me a lot more. not to sound greedy or anything but its just not the amount id expect

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actually im waiting a few days to send that letter. i just texted her brothers cell phone and told him to tell her i can no longer talk to her, and that ive been disappointed too many times and can only take so much heartbreak. im hoping the text messages got to him cuz there is no confirmation. hopefully he can get a hold of her and tell her or atleast do it sometime soon cuz they talk pretty often

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I met this girl online dec. 22 and i went to her house dec. 31 to celebrate new yrs it was supposed to go to a party but we just stayed at her house from like 6pm to 1am. Everything was amazing but to this point I havent seen her since. So we are a month into our relationship and only seen eachother one time. We talk on the internet like every few days. I have a lot going for me with school and work and she has kind of been struggling in her life with work and getting a place to live. Basically she has completely busy and its really hard for her to even see me now. Its been 20 days since i seen her and i think we might be able to see eachother next weekend and i want to make it special was wondering if you guys think if i should buy her anything. btw we have expressed to eachother that we really really do like eachother and we have a ton in common and also havent had a single disagreement. Everything is perfect except with the bump in the road of not being able to actually see her. I am almost 100% certain she isnt covering anything up cuz she explains everything to me like everytime i talk to. All i know is once we really get into the swing of things of a relationship she is going to have a lot of 'making up' to do, not that i hold this against her at all. but she is trying to prove herself to be with me and i keep telling her i promise im not going anywhere. i guess i reinterated that i want to be here for her and have a relationship with her. i want a movie nite with her cuz Saw3 is coming out on DVD and she was going to see it in theaters, but her boyfriend broke up with her that day and he took some other girl. I think seeing the movie will be a little significate. any other ideas? I know this is a very unique situation that me and her are in. she is really trying to move out of her moms (10 min from me) she was at her dads for a week (35 min from me) and now she is kind of at her moms or a friends. she works like 35 min from me. its not that she doesnt want to see me. everytime we talk we say how much we miss eachother and want to see eachother. she just started this job this week and she is kind of tied of into it. i know this is gonna phase over really soon and i see such a ton of potential in her so i want to persue a relationship with her as does she with me.

thanks, the one time we met we were lost in conversation. we were together from like 6pm-1:30am and talked and got along great. nothing 'lovey-dovey' went on between us except a new yrs kiss. maybe if we didnt get along soo great i would of backed up while she is being busy. obviously if things dont seem to clear out in like the next few weeks i might have to pull off. it might eventually become to weird to form a relationship at that point. who knows, i am not pursuing another girl right now as she seems to be perfect for me just not perfect timing. im waiting this one out. we dont over do our talks online, kind of doing something else like researching and then talking to her, she isnt my top priority when online nor am i to her. she has been great at keeping her word and she is practically promise to make something work with me just a matter of not today but rather next week or weeks from now. who really knows. its ashame i like this girl way to much and i know she likes me a lot back so i think we are fine

she is really trying to move out of her moms (10 min from me) she was at her dads for a week (35 min from me) and now she is kind of at her moms or a friends. she works like 35 min from me. its not that she doesnt want to see me. everytime we talk we say how much we miss eachother and want to see eachother. she just started this job this week and she is kind of tied of into it. i know this is gonna phase over really soon and i see such a ton of potential in her so i want to persue a relationship with her as does she with me. everytime we try to plan something, something bad comes up and it falls through. she tells me she really likes me and i know this, just stuff is going on in her life and i guess im on 'hold' as cheesy as that sounds

i know this is a rare situation, but any insight?

how about a kiss on new yrs? does that count. just a simple peck on the lips is wat i gave her and it was our first date together. unfortuantly we have both been extremely busy and not able to see eachother since then yet we talk online or phone like every other day for a bit. we have both expressed to eachother that we truly like eachother. how does a kiss determine a relationship, i just dont get that. btw- i only gave her a hug when i left her house on new yrs.

I met this girl online dec. 22 and i went to her house dec. 31 to celebrate new yrs it was supposed to go to a party but we just stayed at her house from like 7pm to 1am. Everything was amazing but to this point I havent seen her since. So we are a month into our relationship and only seen eachother one time. We talk on the internet like every few days. I have a lot going for me with school and work and she has kind of been struggling in her life with work and getting a place to live. Basically she has completely busy and its really hard for her to even see me now. Its been 20 days since i seen her and i think we might be able to see eachother next weekend and i want to make it special was wondering if you guys think if i should buy her anything. btw we have expressed to eachother that we really really do like eachother and we have a ton in common and also havent had a single disagreement. Everything is perfect except with the bump in the road of not being able to actually see her. I am almost 100% certain she isnt covering anything up cuz she explains everything to me like everytime i talk to. All i know is once we really get into the swing of things of a relationship she is going to have a lot of 'making up' to do, not that i hold this against her at all. but she is trying to prove herself to be with me and i keep telling her i promise im not going anywhere. i guess i reinterated that i want to be here for her and have a relationship with her. i want a movie nite with her cuz Saw3 is coming out on DVD and she was going to see it in theaters, but her boyfriend broke up with her that day and he took some other girl. I think seeing the movie will be a little significate. any other ideas? I know this is a very unique situation that me and her are in.

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