hislifesong

Seriously, y'all! One of my "uppers" in mgmt. I've stopped trying to win her on how she views me! It's no use! She tries to find any possible way to get me in trouble...she's not the one i answer to - but her mom is - yes, they both work here! I answer directly to her mom (who is a sweetheart!), but her daughter, "C", is above both myself and her mom. I don't know if she's just trying to look good for her parent while at work or what!...but, my bf said he went to high school with her, and even then, she acted like her poop don't stink and that she was better than everyone else! She's stuck up and snobbish....!!!! And unless you're on her good list, you'd better watch out! Anything and everything! Last week, she deleted all my personal files off of my computer, including pictures of my past away grandmother - ones that i downloaded onto my computer and then deleted off of my camera!!! She said she was getting rid of music files - but she knew EXACTLY what she was deleting - - everyone knows that KODAK isn't a music program...she knew herself, after coming down and pointing out how to use the program! Any advice would help....other than the obvious - staying out of her way!????

Actually, to my surprise...he sounded quite excited to go to the opera with me... And i guess it's not so much that i can't trust ANYONE - - you must'n't have been lied to much...but after awhile, i find it hard to believe what one is saying to be the truth, especially when they sound uneasy in their voice! Maybe it's just me....?

What are some red flaggers here? I haven't heard from a certain guy that i'm interested & dating - - and when i contact him, it feels strange - like i'm stuck doing the chasing - - shouldn't it be the other way around??! I had to ask him if he wanted to join me, and attend an opera-type show - - is this a red flag that he's just not that into me? I've gotten to that point in my life that I DON'T TRUST GUYS - no matter what they say - i always think they're lying to me - i mean some part of me wants to believe them, but the majority of me says to run! So, what are some things that tell me he's just not that into me? Advice pleeeeze!

Well....we started the date off by going to dinner...then we went to play pool - for about 3 hours...we sort of mutually came up with the idea of a movie at my place...

CALL HER!! I know it'd drive me nuts especially if...see below... how about the other way around...should a girl call the guy about a date - that HE said they'd go on - - scenario: if she hasn't heard from him all week, and the date is scheduled for, say, Friday - and it's Thursday??

spending the night at the girls house on a 3rd date? Scenario: Ya'll are watching movies, and you fall asleep (on her bed, on the covers, in your jeans)...and don't end up leaving until the next morning - nothing happened the night before, but how do you feel about the whole situation - especially if you're really into her?? Would it make you want to still see her, or...???

Okay, 2 questions - I have a hot date tomorrow night with this sexy guy...i'm nearly 30 - things seem to've changed since i've dated (in my early 20's)... I have no idea what to wear - - does it depend on what we're doing - how do you tell!?!?!? We're going to be going out for dinner, then going to play some pool, and then ??? #2: What to talk about?? We've already had our initial meeting with one another - - what does one talk about on a date...???? I've been told to scoop up on celebrity stuff - - but i also know that he's a BIG Football fan & i know NOTHING about football - not even the rules of the game!!! Please HELP!!! Some advice is what i really need! Thanks!

Okay, so the 2nd date is well on it's way... Now...what to wear - - help me out here ladies!!!!

I've been a member on EHarmony and link removed - both for 6 months or more...I've only met 1 guy from eharmony - drove to s.dakota to meet him - but he immediately wanted me to move up near him - - that was too quick. I've only "talked" over the phone to one other guy, and after that i never heard from him again! link removed - i've been, as annie said above...several dates - 1st dates/1st meetings, and they haven't gone past that. However, now...I did meet one guy, and instead, it turned out that we stayed really good friends - we talk everyday! ...but last weekend, i met a guy on friday night...then we did the movie thing sunday night...and we've planned for another date on Saturday evening...strange, is that i really haven't heard much from him all this week - maybe i'm paranoid (see my post on: "girls/guys - playing hard to get" on the dating section)...but i'm hoping he doesn't cancel on me..cuz, i already like him - the sparks are definitely there (on my end anyways!). I've had several people in my church (that are married now) meet thru eharmony...i met my ex husband thru link removed, 7 years ago - so, yeah, it does work. I personally don't like lavalife, friendfinder, or link removed - - they all seem to attract married men/women into cheating! Also, the free dating sites, i think tend to draw more phoneys in - and people who aren't serious - however, i've met a few good ones thru link removed.

I was hoping to get some responses from guys on this question...???

I'd like some feedback on what works, what doesn't - - playing hard to get. Do guys like it when a girl plays hard to catch, or do they hate it? What drives a guys bonkers when you're first starting to date a girl? Excessive calling - no calling - - what gives? Why won't guys call the girl they're dating? Okay...so i've gone on 2 dates with this guy & he wants to take me out Saturday night....we kissed heavily on the 2nd date - does tell him that i'm "easy" - how would a guy view that, heavily making-out on a 2nd date?? i feel like a teenager all over again - in the sense that, i'm starting to date all over again (and i'm 30!) So, i like him, and would like to see this go somewhere....i'm usually good at reading people, but having a hard time reading him....i haven't really heard from him ALL week long (except for a short email, telling me he's tired from work, and a few text messages on my cell phone)- - is HE playing hard to get? Should I do the "reverse psychology" on him?? What do ya'll think?

And once again...he calls me today, to let me know (i already know this - i don't know why he told me again!) that he needs $450 by next friday for his bank account! He just thought i would like to know - - but WHY!!!! I'm changing my telephone number - - but that really doesn't help me - he knows my work # and where i live too!...i'm not going to put a restraining order on him - he hasn't done anything of that sort to make me do that - but jeeze - why can't he win the lottery or something!

LOL - that's funny - i'm pretty open-minded...perhaps i should tell him to write a book...tee hee hee I thought about calling his ex-wife - but if he were to find out, omg - i can't imagine what he would do! I called my ex-husbands' ex-wife, when we were married, and having problems - she told me if i was having problems that early on, to get out while i still could...

I'm starting to think that's all he wants me around for is money...like yesterday evening, after he'd picked up his daughter (i heard her in the background sayin' "daddy"), he called to tell me that he got this letter in the mail, telling him he has 10 days to get his bank account into the positive, otherwise, his account will be turned over to the prosecuting attorney - - oh and btw - his acct is something like $450 in the hole...First of all - i have (in the past) had an acct like that, and it was never turned over to the p.a. - instead, it was sent to a collection agency. But I told him I couldn't loan him the money...due to the fact that my check this week is much smaller than usual (i was gone first on unpaid vacation, then my g'ma passed away - so i was absent for like a week 1/2 - i didn't get berievement pay (they don't offer it!), and i have to pay a speeding ticket from the money i get from this check! He said he didn't call me to get money from me...but i'm thinking, then why did you call me?? He said he thought i'd like to know...fishy, fishy, fishy...

Okay...totally off subject - but NJRon - what exactly is that picture of?? It's totally creepin' me out...??? Gives me the whoobie-joobies!