Miss Sweet

But he never calls me hon...and its a long distance relationship....i always call...his explaination is we need to take it easy and he is super busy....should i buy that? I think i need some respect here...plus he did something so i dont really trust him now...plus he sounds mad at me like what f*** did i go...

Do you guys think its always love at first sight? Or it always takes time to develop...and how long you think.....please respond thanks

*Sigh...ya i think he doesnt love me...but its hard to even think someone whom u spent so many special moments and thoughts and other things would not love you... ...i think i am not going to call him at all even if it kills me...i am going to let him go and if he ever comes back then it was meant to be and if not then let it be ....

*Sigh...ya i think he doesnt love me...but its hard to even think someone whom u spent so many special moments and thoughts and other things would not love you... ...i think i am not going to call him at all even if it kills me...i am going to let him go and if he ever comes back then it was meant to be and if not then let it be

I am going through the same thing....at the end of the day Just think is this guy REALLY MARVELLOUS as you may seem to think...maybe he isnt all that what u think when u in love u put all the bad things aside and focus on the good things..give it time...i am doing the same thing even though i feel like dying inside sometime..i gave up my pride so many times for love but how much more i will not do that forever...i broke up then went back to him...but nothing was the same as before...i am still hurt and sad...good luck

I think u need professional help hon...like therapy...do you have a family history of divorce or something? You are scared of commitment it seems...becoz u panic when u feel like u are getting too close to a person so u move to the next....i hope u get better though...good luck... and remember there is always hope

Hi there. I am in a bit of a similar situation with my bf except we are not broken up but just taking things easy. and we dont see eye to eye on everything either... If u really really love him you guys should just start out as a friends again u know and then see where it takes...i dont think u should just get back with him again and give it time.... good luck!!

Hi cs20century fox...thanks so much for your reply! THat is what some of my other friends have adviced me...and that is what my bf says give me time and take it easy.... ..its so hard when u miss someone and think they dont like u anymore or dont want u...ufff One more question since i am not so experienced with guys and relationships....HE SAYS HE LIKES ME BUT NOT SURE IF HE LOVES ME....even after 9 months of us together and our relationship....should i be worried lol since i have already told him i love him?

Hi everyone this is my first post so hi to u all I have been having a long distance relationship with this guy for 9 months now. Its a long distance relationship 4 hrs drive to get to his city. Our first 6 months of relationship was soo good...sure we had problems but i always trusted him and we had good times. Something happened i found out about a girl who came between us and did something to me via internet becoz she is jealous about me and him and has been after my bf for a while. When i confronted him he said she is only a friend and did a favour took care of his dog. So i forgave him i trusted him. But now he doesnt call me and I call him all the time sometimes he doesnt return my calls everything has changed. I have talked to him and he says we need to take things "easy" whatever that means. I call him like 2 times a week but he wont call me in a week. His explaination he is very super busy opening a store....for some reason i dont buy it and i am driving my self crazy thinking what to do....he is my very first serious bf with the longest relationship and believe me i love him so much but he keeps pushing me away...why cant guys just be honest and end a dead end relationship if he doesnt like me no more or doesnt want me anymore...i have tried talking to him but he seems mad at me..i dont trust him but its so hard walking away from him coz i keep thinking i am the one doing something wrong here.....its long distance and its hard for me to just get up and go see him becoz of family and cultural issues...should i go confront him with everything at his place???????????should i end this relationship since i dont trust him no more????????????or do i keep on trying coz i am so hurt and sad/? plz help with your comments and suggestions.. thanks a lot