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Go together, get an idea of the style and size and then you can go and get one. Me and my husband knew we would eventually get married and just happened to look at rings whenever we went on a trip or shopping, so when the time finally came he was ready and I've got the ring I wanted. I have had thousands of compliments on it since I have been wearing it becasue it is not your typical engagement ring. I also am not your typical wife, so it fits perfectly. Don't rush it, wives are VERY proud of their rings!!

We went to counseling and somehow or another his problem was made to be something I did. "boys will be boys" etc... He is truly sorry and the computer is now locked and all that mess. ANd I don't think he would EVER meet someone in person. I have never lied to this man no matter how bad it was going to be for me and I thought he was truthful too. The porn does not bother me we have relations everyday even after the baby came, it's just as good as the first year we dated even after all this time, but lately that area has been suffering too and I don't want to tell him that he just doesn't do it for me anymore

The other women, and I think some of it is because he felt he had to lie. I would not have flipped if he had told me instead of me happening upon it again

Me and my husband have been together 8 years, married 5. We have a one year old daughter that I quite work to stay home with because of difficult pregnancy and my near death after delivery(can't have no more) I have busted him 3 times with the internet porn stuff and chatting with women online. This was supposed to stop after the first time, well it didn't. The second time I was 3 months pregnant, and the last tiem was a week before our fifth anniversary!! We have always been super close, told each other everything, were best friends etc.... Well the last time this happened I just went psycho on him and eversince (6 months) I have not felt the same bond with him. I don't trust him and the sound of his voice sometimes makes me want to strangle him with my bare hands ( I know, I have started medication!) Anyway, I feel like I want to leave but won't be able to stay home with my only child that I can ever have, I don't want to deprive her of her dad and her familiar surroundings ( we will move out of town) I don't know what to do, I love him but not the way I always have. And now I have a child to consider. I will say that if it were not for the baby I would not have any trouble leaving, tomorrow. That's what is in my heart. Any kind words or suggestions?!

coming from the medical field, I can tell you that it depends on WHICH hormone the pill contained. If she switched pills with different hormones, it is just like starting over on a new pack of pills. Keep that in mind ladies.

We do it all the time! Get a towel and get over it. After you have a baby you take it whenever you can get it!!!!

Cranston, I am at the same point in my life as well. Not for the same reasons as you but for others. I am the only woman I know who cares as much about sex as any male friends I have. My husband has no complaints to say the least. But have you thought about the fact she may be nearing menopause? Just a thought. I know if she has fallen out of love with you that the sex would be dwindling also? Has she ever had any complaints in the bedroom, or would she even tell you? My philosophy is: If you don't want it, you ain't getting it good. Just my two cents.

My husband had it done and had the worst possible scenario happen. The simple procedure turned out a short stay in hte hospital because his cords were too thin to find and in knots. They had to rip his sack from top to bottom and dig around to find them. He was off work for a month and 8 months later he has no pain but a crazy left nut. I am a nurse and have ever heard of anything like this before, but leave it to us to have something crazy happen!! Really don't be afraid I have seen lots of them done, but don't think there are no risks. You will have to take a specimen in a 6weeks, 12 weeks and 6 months. So go do it now you still have to use protection until the 6 month sample is sperm free.

He has no more internet access, that is the thing it's opening the doors to other things. If I stay and forgive him he'll think he got away with it again.

He is not still doing it, I really don't know where all the anger is coming from except that I thought we were best friend s and totally honest with each other and I didn't see this coming. It seems to me that he didn't think as much of me and our relationship and I did.

We have always been SUPER close, we do alot of stuff together, and some apart. This was the only thing I didn't know about him. We have watched stuff together before, now I feel like an idiot if it truly is a problem. Like I said earlier, the porn I can deal with, but all the women he was talking to I jst can't understand. We have always told each other everything even if the other didn't want to hear it.

Me and my husband have been married 5 years and dated for 3 years. A few years ago I caught him looking at porn and talking to other women online. I told him how I felt he said ok and that it wouldn't happen again. Well I caught him at it again last year when I was 7 months pregnant. I had had it I was leaving and all that. He begged and pleaded with me to stay and that he would NEVER do it again. Well in March I caught him again. By this time we have a 9 month old and I really wanted to leave. Why I didn't who knows. We went to counseling, preachers, have been very open about how this has hurt me and our marriage and all that, but I can't get over it. I am not one to tolerate much crap, but I have 1/3 of my life invested in this relationship. I truly married by best friend, I loved him more and more the longer we were married. We have people comment on how they wish their marriage and relationship was like ours (was). The porn thing I can get over, but all the women and the things he was discussing with them, that should have been with me, his wife. there is just something I can not get over about this whole situation. Sex has never been an issue with us, he is the one who has never been able to keep up in the bedroom believe it or not. He says he doesn't know why he does it, he knows he shouldn't etc...but that something that started out normal as a teenager just hasn't gone away. He swears I am the only one he has ever been with and that I am the only one he wants to be with. I need some suggestions and support here from anyone who has been in this situation. I still think about it everyday and get mad, and I think I really still want to leave. Thanks](*,)

I have been married 5 years, we dated for 3. I married my best friend, lover, all that good stuff. And Ihonestly loved him more and more every day that we were together until he messed up. I caught him a couple years ago talking to women on the computer. He said he would stop. I caught him again last year when I was 8 months pregnant. I was going to leave but didn't. He promised that was it and he was sorry to please no tleave him. I stayed. Well I caught him again in March. We went to marriage counseling, preacher, talk openly about our feelings etc. I have done nothing wrong and just cannot get the feelings back for him that I have had for so long. I do not know what to do. P.S. Sex has never been the issue, he is the one who can't keep up in the bedroom. So tell me what do I do. Tough it out see if the fire comes back, or leave. I am not happy and I don't know if it's him, me, the whole situation or what. But I just don't care about *&^% anymore because of this. Thanks

Hey, I'm new to enotalone, but not to what you're discussing. It has been my own personal experience that it's not what you have or don't have, but if you know how to use it. Think about that.