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That would be brave! But if you could be that brave, then you got it in you to approach her.

Oh ok so she's not going to be cutting your hair....You could still ask her those questions.

Its up to you-either you take a chance and ask her or you let the fear of awkwardness win.

It all depends on the individual. I have a very best friend that is a guy. We have been friends for 10 years, and trust me, absolutely NO interest on either side. We are both in relationships, both of our sig. others know how good of friends we are.

Good for you! That's the best way to look at it, a day at a time. Looking too far in the future is never good. BEST WISHES!!!!!

Try making small talk with her while she's cutting your hair. Ask her something like "how long have you been working here?" or "where'd you go to school." You guys may know some of the same people since you're close in age. Those type of questions may open up a conversation between the 2 of you-that may answer some of your questions about whether or not she has a boyfriend.

Look at it this way-what do you got to lose?

Good luck!

I agree with Frisco, best thing to do is return it and move on. Move forward, not backwards.

I agree with Warm Heart.....and if you have to ask him about it just tell him how you came accross it, that it was while you were goin through your old emails & just clicked on it for fun.

You will, the pain can take a long time to subside. And sometimes just when you think you're healed, it all comes crashing down all over again. You're going through the healing process which is like a roller coaster. 5.5 yrs is a long time & getting over that loss will take a long time. You must learn to love you before other people can love you. I know sounds cliche, but it is so true.

He's only 18, he's still a child. Do what's best and leave him be. You're the grown up here, take the initiative and do not contact him. Trust me, your family is right here.

Jayar........couldn't agree with you more.

This guy is weird. Don't allow yourself to be used-that's what he's doing, using you.....This is the way I look at it-When you were together he didn't respect you enough to be faithful to you, and now that you're apart he's still showing his lack of respect by USING you for sex. Be better then that.

To ease you own pain you need not to have contact with her. As hard as it may be, don't answer her calls. Ignore her messages. Its selfish of her to say she misses you and such if she "needs time to herself" right now. As for work, try and avoid the areas of the building she will be in as much as possible.

She very well may have jumped into a relationship too soon, but that's not your fault.

Yep, don't call. If a man is interested he'll contact you. Wait it out a few more days and then move on.

Yep, don't speak to him-not by phone, email, text-NOTHING. Imagine if you were his wife, think how hurt she'd be if she knew. And his children-let this be a lesson in what kind of man he really is. The pain will fade......How long were you two together?

Yeah, give her a call, what do you have to lose? See how she responds to you calling her. If she sounds happy or accepting then ask if the 2 of you could get together. Take it from there. GOOD LUCK!!

Do not do quit your job! Look back on the last time you gave up your job for a b/f....didn't work out. Don't make that mistake again.....Learn from your past. If he really wants to be w/you try makin it work from a distance first.

Yep, YOU need to get to know you better.....masturbation is important for a woman to be able to orgasm. Don't be afraid to purchase a vibrator. Experiment a little. Once YOU are familiar with what makes YOU feel good, you can apply that to your sex life.

congrats!!! Hope all goes well

I agree with NJRon....don't allow yourself and your child to be treated this way

amen Blender

Get out now!!! He has major control & insecurity issues. Be strong, you are an individual, you don't need him to survive

You have every right to be angry and upset. I would be absolutely furious if I were you. He should respect his WIFE enough not to talk to other women like that. Stand your ground, you're not in the wrong here.

That's a tough one. Its hard to tell what they want sometimes. All I can say is go with your gut. Good luck girl!

I personally know people can make mistakes, and never make them again. She sounds like she is truly remorseful and knows what a mistake she made. It will take time for the trust to come back, but if you allow it to it will. I think when a couple continues to try after infidelity, you must leave it in the past. Don't forget it, but keep it in the back of your mind. It will be hard, but you can't continue to bring it up. Otherwise it will never work.

Good luck

don't allow yourself to be a target. For women sex complicates things. Don't have sex with them, make them wait. The ones that are really interested in you and not just getting in your pants, will hang around.