BellaKristina

I met this guy a year ago on vacation he lives six hours away. Everytime i would go back to that destination we would see eachother and go on a date. But he is french, speaks english with a french accent that i dont understand sometimes. Anyways, we talk online every few days but i think about him all the time! a few months ago i told him i liked him and he said he doesnt feel a special connection between us, and he said when i go there we can see eachother and go out and have fun. The last time i went there he told me he couldnt see me because he had a girlfriend, since then he has asked me for adive about the girl when they broke up. We started talking more frequently since he has asked me for advice we got a little closer on a friendship level. I think about him most of the day and actually can't wait to come home and see if he is online. I have no idea what if he thinks about me, or if he likes me now?? Or maybe i am over reacting about him? I really like him but im sick of sitting here wondering what he thinks of me, how can i find out how he really feels, i do not want to come off obsessed, that would be the last thing i would want to do. Advice needed! Thank- you

Thanks for the advice

Thanks for the advice! I am going to send him an e-mail to get it off my chest. I dont want him to hate me or think differently of me for telling him I cant do it on such short notice. This is what I am going to say in the e-mail any suggestions? Hi, I don't want to disappoint you! I thought I could spare some cash, but found I would be coming up short myself. I am so sorry for the inconvience, because I really wanted to help you out. I am sorry to tell you this on such short notice. I will talk to you soon. Take care. Any suggestions?

Last summer I met this guy on vacation a few states away. We have remained friends eversince, mostly talking online. He is 27 and im 21. I went back vacationing and saw him a few times. We were talking online the other day and he brought up how he was low on money so he couldnt come visit me. Then he said he was opening his ice cream store and needed money for that. I kept asking him questions about it and it turns out i end up in the posistion of the one trying to help him out with getting the money for the store. I have no idea what i was thinking that day but i told him i would send him some money to help him out. And I am not the kind of girl who useually does things like this but i like him and trust that he will pay me back. Something is telling me this is a bad idea, how can i explain to him i changed my mind, with out saying how i truly feel about it which is crappy. I dont know what to do someone help me please! Thank-you

So you think I should ask his friend for his number? And give him a call, it wont come off as obsessed?

The day after new years me and some friends rented a hotel room. One of my friends brought his friends friend along. This kid used to live in the area but now lives 45 minutes away. One of his friends just died, thats why he was in the area. We talked till 6:00 am when everyone else was asleep. I found him attractive and very nice. We feel asleep and the next morning I woke up and left for work, while the kid I liked was still sleeping. Then I thought to myself oh no we never exchanged numbers or anything. When my friend was driving the boys home he asked where I was, then when he was getting out of the car he said "Tell your friend...tell her Thank You" I dont know if he was thinking the same thing I was thinking about exchanging numbers, maybe he was to shy to tell my friend he wanted my number. or if we were going to see eachother again. I have no idea what he's thinking. His friend says he comes back on the weekends sometimes...Im not sure what he thinks, because I thought we clicked and had somethings in common or else I wouldn't have stayed up all night with him.

Thanks that was great! It made me feel so much better about it thats exacally what i needed to hear! You are right

I saw my ex-boyfriend a couple times, while he was with his current girlfriend. We slept together twice. Since he was the only sex partner I had at that time, I assumed he got me pregnant when I missed my period twice. Turns out im not pregnant. But his girl friend is, this made me jelious (because I like him, and I had an abortion in the past I still feel bad about , i always wanted to be the one to have his child.) plus we just started talking again. I lashed out and 2 wayed him on his nextel while he was with his girlfriend ( thinking i was pregnant too) I used my friends phone with his number on it because he didnt give me his number because he didnt want me to call when hes with his girlfriend. Anyway I 2 wayed him with his girl friend right there I said who I was then said i really need to talk to you. He said dont ever call my phone again or ill call the police. Five minutes later he said "what do u want?" I said i think i am preganant, he said no way, your lying dont call my phone again" then he hung up on me. The next morning i got a voicemail from him i missed 2 calls he said not so nice things and he said he was never gonna talk to me again, and dont call his phone cause hes changing his number, and he said you only called just to talk to me he will never ever call me again blah blah blah I ended up crying all day because finally I was back in touch with him and I messed it all up, I actually couldnt believe i had the guts to do it, all i wanted was to be friends with him. I would never have jeperdized anything between us, this was something i still dont understand why I did it.I was soooo mad at myself. The fact that he said he would never call me ever again, breaks my heart after all the work I was putting in to our friendship. If its ment to be it will be, but what do i say when he calls, should i be mean and say i dont want to talk to you after that voice mail you left (which was a month ago) or should I explain how i lashed out, I dont want to come off as the jelious ex girlfriend to him I want to reconcile with him and be friends... I dont know what to do really what do you think I should say when he calls to make this all better...

I had an abortion about 2 years ago my ex stayed with me for a year and a few months later then he broke up with me. He started dating a girl who is 16, I am 21 done with school and have my feet on the ground, so this was kind of and insult. He is 20 now. It is a long story but this is where i am at now. Anyways 6 months after we broke up i thought about him almost everyday, it was hard i was almost over him and he called me. I was shocked, I asked him why he called he said because he wanted to see how i was doing. So he ended up calling a week later at night and asked me to come over. I explain to him that i have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend its not a good idea. He got kind of mad. Anyways he called again the next week and told me to come over agian i gave in and slept with him that night. Two weeks later he called again and i slept with him again. Then a few weeks later he called and wanted to hang out but i was busy i said no. I asked him if he would ever go out with me again he said not for a really long time. What does he want from me just to sleep together when hes not getting any from his girlfriend?? I think about him all the time waiting for the day he will call again. And did i mention he wont give me his cell number, so i couldnt call him if i wanted. I am confused and i hate to say it still in love.. Help how do i get him back??? And what does he want from me???