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coolsome, i hope i can start thinking like you soon because you sound like your doing better and starting to realize things which is good. alright well she texted me twice today and the second one she sounded kinda mad that i wasnt replying. i havent replied but it just seems like i should because like ive said before it just seems like shes gonna think i dont care and have already moved on. im not gonna reply tonight but if she keeps trying to contact me then i atleast want to let her know i dont hate her but i want to get her space and i want space also.

Im also kind of in this situation. She is going out with someone else already and I have the chance to start dating a friend but I just dont know if I really want to because it could cause her to think I dont care about trying to be with her anymore and im also doing NC which could make her think I dont care all together. I dunno im confused.

thanks cooolsome, i just kinda think the NC isnt really gonna work out easily because we have lunch together and she sees me there everyday and she can break the NC whenever.Also if she sees me everyday then she cant miss me right?

Alright so ive been doing NC only since friday and ive been avoiding her and not talkin to her at school but today she kinda just appeared and tried to talk to me. She told me sent me text messages and i just kind of said oh really and then she just tried to talk to me about things goin on with her friend and i told her i had to go. Shes already dating someone new who she really likes and i just cant take it. Im wondering if i should tell her that i want to do NC or just keep doing what im doing and not talk to her. I dunno im really confused because i dont see how she could already be dating someone and walk in front of me holding his hand after we broke up only 1 month ago. Also she tells me she still loves me so im just trying to give her space and hopefully shell realize how much I love her and we belong together. Sorry i wrote so much but im basically just asking if i should keep what im doin or should i tell her im doin NC. Thanks for anyones help and I hope all of you are doin well with NC.

I know this might take awhile to be answered cuz of all the other posts but if someone could help me out id reallly appreciate it. Alright so i just broke up with my girlfriend of 10 months about a week and a half ago. She said that we needed a break and were not alike or we shouldnt be together. So shes already sorta dating another guy and its really hard for me. I also did all the wrong things and have begged for her to give me another chance and to let me show her that i really love her and will make her happy. So basically im just finding out about all this NC and i think its a great idea but it would be hard for it to work out with us. First of all should i tell her i want to do this or should i just stop talkin to her? Is saying that im doing this to let her get her space and figure out things a good idea while also saying that i will always love her and hope she will give me another chance? So should i tell her or what? Also, we go to school together and i walk with her between all classes. Isnt it gonna be kinda hard to not speak or see her when i see her all day long and she shares my locker? So do you think she'll forget about me and just get into a relationship with this guy or what because im really confused and i just dont wanna lose her by not speaking to her or seeing her.

can someone give me advice? my posts at the top of the page thanks

I know this might take awhile to be answered cuz of all the other posts but if someone could help me out id reallly appreciate it. Alright so i just broke up with my girlfriend of 10 months about a week and a half ago. She said that we needed a break and were not alike or we shouldnt be together. So shes already sorta dating another guy and its really hard for me. I also did all the wrong things and have begged for her to give me another chance and to let me show her that i really love her and will make her happy. So basically im just finding out about all this NC and i think its a great idea but it would be hard for it to work out with us. First of all should i tell her i want to do this or should i just stop talkin to her? Is saying that im doing this to let her get her space and figure out things a good idea while also saying that i will always love her and hope she will give me another chance? So should i tell her or what? Also, we go to school together and i walk with her between all classes. Isnt it gonna be kinda hard to not speak or see her when i see her all day long and she shares my locker? So do you think she'll forget about me and just get into a relationship with this guy or what because im really confused and i just dont wanna lose her by not speaking to her or seeing her.